I have NEVER been intimate with guy, and im 16 yrs. Im ready to be in a relationship, and was wonderig if anyone could give advise to a 16 year old virgin.I don't want to jump into something that will leave me hurt,so please help me.**
2007-02-09 15:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been in your shoes.
My advice, don't go out with the guy unless you honestly trust him and believe that he wants whats best for you, not just whats best (or what he thinks is best but really isn't) for him.
Do not go fast.
Be a shapoopie if you are going to kiss him.
Don't kiss him on the first date and if he tries to, firmly state your position and make it clear you aren't ready for that. EVEN IF YOU WANT TO KISS HIM! This is where you can see how strong his will power is. If he tries to talk you into kissing him, even a few days later, he really lacks the maturity and chivalry that a nice girl such as yourself deserves. Remember: you never forget your first kiss. Do you really want it to be shared with a boyfriend you had for a few weeks?
Oh, and disregard those last few guys' answers. They were totally rude.
2007-02-09 16:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by TheEarthBoundEnigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember to remind the dude to wear the coat everytime, and for u to remember to take the pills with u everytime u go on a date in case he forget to bring his coats.
2007-02-09 16:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it come to you. the worst thing to do is to obsess about it. Mr. wonderful will show up when you are not even looking at the weirdest place, but you will know.
2007-02-09 16:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK U A PERSON WHO IS A TRUE LOVER OF URS AND MAKE SURE U DONT HURT HIM
2007-02-09 16:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by rocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush if you don't feel ready and don't make him rush you. just take your time and when you feel ready than you know.
2007-02-09 16:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going on the wrong path
2007-02-09 16:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, what he said...but if you are going to make love make sure he wears a glove...
2007-02-09 16:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smoothie, aka Mr. SmartAss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
^ i agree.
dont have sex.
and be yourself. dont be phony.
and stand up for yourself if you dont like something.
and smile.
2007-02-09 16:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by ladybleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only advice, dont have sex till your married,. youl be glad you did.
2007-02-09 16:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into it with me, please, i'm so horny.
anyway, to help you, just takeit slow.
2007-02-09 16:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋