Now i'm dating this guy and he is making me upset all the time when he talks to girls online. When i confronted him about this issues, he told me just a friendship talking. Before i met him he did have history of sleeping with woman online. Do you think i'm over-reacted? Should i give this relationship a try?
2007-02-09 15:51:29 · 19 answers · asked by 2006xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it a new relationship? did you meet him online? the internet isnt like sending love letters by horse courier. its an easy way to communicate. if he's just talking, don't worry. he's probably talking about you. i know i got good advice from female internet friends when i was trying to win my wife's heart. if he starts making you dinners and taking you places you didnt expect, keep handing him the mouse. if he disappears and doesnt answer his phone, then confront him
2007-02-09 16:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by joseph w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are over reacting. He is not giving you the respect you deserve in the relationship so its time to say goodbye. He is always going to be this way. You can't change him because he'll keep doing it behind your back. Its still considered as cheating. Don't be with someone like him. You will never be happy. Chat lines are no good. Thats where many young girls even go and become missing for guy like that. Find someone else. Good luck sweetie
2007-02-09 23:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Doris M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in a relationship! Friendship talking??? What is that? How do you sleep with a woman online? Do you mean they met and were together? Move on, this guy is not a keeper! Respect yourself more than this.
2007-02-09 23:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you're uncomfortable with anything like that, he should stop doing it. If these are people he's never met in real life, they're not really his friends and he should have no problem giving them up.
If he's not respecting your wishes (and your wish isn't that unreasonable), I don't think a relationship will work out. You both need to be honest with the things you do and how each of you feel about those things.
2007-02-09 23:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a flashlight and shine it through your ear in a dark room. Does the light come out the other ear???
What a line he's feeding you and a ridiculous one at that. He's like an over-sexed dog that humps all your visitor's legs when they come over, and then wants to play fetch. You're too good for the bum. He's so desperate he's having sex over a computer! Artoo Detoo is more his style.
2007-02-10 00:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't give the relationship a try. Sounds like to me he's playing head games. I wouldn't even trust him. He has a lot to learn about being serious with someone. IF EVER! You would be too good for someone like that. I'm sure he would break your heart too! I would end it as fast as it started!
2007-02-09 23:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a guy is allowed to talk to people online. In fact he's allowed to talk to any girls. Just remember that he goes home to YOU every night and that's all that's important.
2007-02-09 23:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you sleep with someone online?? anyway if you know he likes doing these things then you need to ask yourself if you can live with it or not. online sex and flirting is his way of cheating but he thinks its ok because he doesn't actually touch these girls. so if you want a cheater or someone whos cheating online its up to you. personally i'd kick him to the curb!
2007-02-09 23:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are just friends then he shouldnt object you sitting in and watching. even if he doesnt let on whats happening she would slip. maybe even you talking to her under his name when he isnt home? if nothing is happening then tell him you dont like him talking to other girls. if he really loves you he should at least cut down on communication with her. but calm down and relax. even though you deserve to know the truth dont make things worse by tearing a gap between you both and make him cheat.
2007-02-10 00:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is not much of information to tell you a lot but what do you think do you trust him enugh to stay with him or you better not risk the chance of geting hurt cause he is not worth
2007-02-09 23:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋