I'm 16 and I was at my lakehouse this weekend, and so was this not-so-cue guy in my school. There was nothing to do, so we made out and did some more. But now that I'm back at school he keeps calling me and calling me "honey" and "baby". I just want hi to leave me alone, I was just bored! What do I do? Tell him it didn't mean anything, tell him to leave me alone, hang out with him, or just ignore him? I feel so lost!
2007-02-09 15:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope he tells everyone at school about his adventures with you. You used that guy as a plaything just to keep from being bored when you knew you would have no feelings for him. Maybe someday you'll like some guy and he'll do that to you.
2007-02-09 15:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by J D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I'm trying real hard not to dump a whole pile of negative judgement on you right now.
Try a little honesty, & tell him that you aren't really interested in continuing a reelationship with him, & that you would appreciate it if he would call you by your name instead of "honey" or "baby".
That's just for starters.
What you did was very selfish, & shows that you have very little empathy for others.
You are 16, & should be able to understand the consequences of your actions, & that there are things that you do that can affect other people.
The next time you get bored at the lake house, try reading a book instead of stomping all over some poor boys heart.
2007-02-09 23:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was stupid doing that just because you are bored!! You should have thought of that before you messed around. I hate to say this but it sounds as if you would do it for any reason I hope i am wrong. I feel sad for you. Respect yourself and stop doing it with anyone OK. Just come right out and tell him the truth.
2007-02-09 23:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this was just a whole big misunderstanding, and quite frankly he sounds like a weirdo to me. Who even does that, calls people honey and baby? Nothing much even happened here and it's being blown out of proportion. Ignore him, it's not like he fell in love with you or anything. JEESHH..way to harsh people, like you've never done it before
2007-02-10 12:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I was SOOO bored and tired of tanning and filing my nails at my rich daddy's lake house so I slutted it up with some loser from school and now he thinks we are an item...what shall I DO?!!"
--Sorry girl, I cannot answer this because I have no pity for you whatsoever.
You have absolutely NO respect for yourself, so what you can do is get some! You fooled around with some "not-so-cute" guy you barely know because you were BORED?!!
Oh my gosh!! You gotta be kidding me!
2007-02-09 23:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, ya shouldn't have done anything if you didn't want the after affects. best advice is don't be a snobby stuck up thing and talk to the guy. geesh
and people wonder why girls get called bad names for doing things when they were "bored"
2007-02-09 23:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by sesamenc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you wrote here. You were bored, he was a way to pass the time and it's over. Don't make a big deal out of it.
2007-02-09 23:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got some growing up to do. There's always plenty to do without "making out" with someone you are not in love with. THat's plain bad judgment.
Learn how to play Scrabble or Monopoly.
2007-02-09 23:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You led him on and played with his emotions, because you are bored? You are a really bad person.
2007-02-09 23:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honeslty this is ur fault u led him on.. lol kinda of a mistake but its okay i prob would of done the same thing =]] just tell him that u dont like him anymore better yet you never did. he will get over it.
best of luck. my wishes to ya.
2007-02-09 23:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋