I've been dating B1 for almost 17 months now and he's my first boyfriend. Now, I think my heart has found someone else, who'se more 'compadiable' with who I want to be. He(B2) really likes me and has told me before. What should I do. Or, do I just think I like B2 because it's something new and I'm bored? or is it really something I should think about. I'm confused and not sure what to do. I'm scared what B1 might do to himself if inso I leave him, so leaving isnt as simple as it would sound.
2007-02-09 15:36:16 · 10 answers · asked by Akia_Tora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's complicated, but only if you make it that way. I know, because I have been there. The real question is, what would happen with B3 comes along?? I think there will ALWAYS be someone that comes along that will appear to be better then who you have.
Here is what I would do: New boyfriends are fun, just as new girlfriends are for me. Anything new is fun! So don't let that fool you. I say FOLLOW YOUR HEART. You know deep down inside who you want to be with - your gut feeling. Maybe it's not either of them.
And don't worry what BF1 will do to himself if you leave him - that would be a dumb reason to stay together. If he really loves you, he will respect your decision. It's hard, but be honest with him. And yes, it will be the toughest time of your life breaking up with BF1, if that's what you want to do. But he will get over it eventually.
Good luck, do what you feel is right for you.
2007-02-09 15:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rusty Nail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This b1 sounds bad. You should be able to tell him anything but i see you are afraid to. Why dont you just stay with b1 for now and talk more with b2 and if you are sure you want b2 go for it . and dont tell b1 you just want to be friends that wont help any.
2007-02-09 15:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a PRO and CON list.Then look in your heart.Do you want to spend the rest of your life with B1 or B2?
Your Friend,
Princess_Lili_B
P.S. I have two princes and one princess,just like you.
2007-02-09 15:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by princess_lili_b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you need to sit down and write a list of pro's and con's about B1 and B2and then see which one you are most compatable with . oh yeah and what did you do to B1 that if you leave him he might do something to his self?
2007-02-09 15:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by imbossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with b1 if u still love him bcuz love neva dies. so if u "feel" the love is not there then move on to B2
If b1 cuts himself or sumthin thats on him not you dont worry bout it
2007-02-09 15:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 06:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK....IF YOU LOST A LOVED ONE AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, WHO OUT OF THE TWO WOULD YOU CALL FIRST?
IF YOU COULD ONLY BRING ONE PERSON WITH YOU ON AN ISLAND, WHO WAS THAT FIRST PERSON THAT CROSSED UR MIND, WHEN YOU READ THIS QUESTION?
WRITE THE PRO'S AND CON'S OF EACH PERSON, IF YOU EVER GET STUCKED WHEN U ARE THINKING ABOUT ONE THEN YOU KNOW?
THE HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS, SO THINK WITH UR HEART NOT YOUR HEAD
2007-02-09 15:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to what your heart is telling you to do. sometimes you do need to put yourself first. staying with B1 out of pity wont be good for either of you.
best of luck.
2007-02-09 15:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's something new and your bored need something to make your relationship fun again or it will go downhill
2007-02-09 15:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Danny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do wut my heart is set out for and just go with it
both of them would find out about it and then they both would break up with u so be honest and follow your heart.
2007-02-09 15:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋