Does anyone have experience with this or any thoughts? My friend did this right after he got out of a two year relationship, but then he broke it off after about three months.
2007-02-09 15:26:07 · 16 answers · asked by shell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it can, but its really rare.
2007-02-09 15:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of rebound. I've known people to 'fall in love' very quickly and they fall out of love just as quickly. Even if a couple got engage this fast, I would recommend waiting a year before actually exchanging vows. Relationships go through phases. First there is the honeymoon phase where both partners are on there best behavior in order to impress their new partner. As time goes by, they start to let their guard down and the true personality comes out and that can be a shock to many to find out that prince/princess is a real a**h***! Love versus Lust is always hard to determine, best to take the time to know the REAL person. Getting married is easy, but getting a divorce, well........
2007-02-09 15:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's weird. I can't really say why.
There's part of me that says that they hardly know each other, but then again there's part of me that says why not jump in if you're happy and deal with the rest later, like everyone eventually has to do anyway.
Could it be love? Sure. But, what's love anyway?
I had a girlfriend who told me she wanted to move in with me after a month. I just asked quizitivly, "Are you sure? We just started dating. It sounds nice, but are you really sure?" She let it go. She would always talk about married couples and couples who just had a kid and how blissful they all were. She never directly said, let's do that now, but that was pretty much the message.
Anyway, after a few months we broke up. I still have no fricking clue as to what she was really after. Too many mixed messages. I also wonder if she ever cheated on me. She was a wonky one.
2007-02-09 15:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. I only knew this person for about a month and we actually got married in Las Vegas, then he left me that night. I was left in Las Vegas when at the time I lived in California. He went back without me and I walked 2 days to get back to my state. Tell your friend not to do it yet. He doesn't know how she is and who she is yet. It takes time. And how in the hell can he already be over someone that he was with for 2 years? He's just using this girl as a rebound. He doesn't love her or know her. He
is just crazy or on drugs. Thats how it happens. He doesn't even know what he is doing. He just going to get hurt or hes going to hurt her.
2007-02-09 15:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Doris M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my soon to be husband got engaged after about 2 months of dating. it has been six months and we plan on getting married sometime within the next month or so. in my opinion it doesn't matter. marriages still fail when the people have been together years and years before getting married so i figure we have just as good of a chance as anyone
also his great aunt and uncle met on a Saturday night and got married the next Saturday and have been together for 57 years. some things are just meant to be.
2007-02-09 15:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend just got engaged to this guy that she has dated for only two months.. we all think she is nuts.. but she keeps saying sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind and follow your heart.. if two people say their in love after only a month who are we to judge them.. But a month is such a short time, i dont feel like irs enough time to really get to know the real person..
2007-02-09 15:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its the right thing ,because some other couples are dating like 10 years and getting bored of each others and then divorsing . but if they were dating a month it wuold be more interesting the life
2007-02-09 15:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got engaged to my wife after 1 month and we're coming up to our 3rd anniversary. If you both feel the same way and are willing to commit I don't see a problem.
2007-02-09 15:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Joe D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that anything is possible, but it doesn't sound too likely. It sounds like your friend was on the rebound. I believe that it takes a long time to get to know someone. You can like someone, be enfatuated with someone or be attracted to someone right away. However, to love someone takes longer than a month.
2007-02-09 15:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but I would prefer to wait until the "magic" stage pass, when you see the real person, and the real you arise.
Besides, its not good to start a new relationship without having some time for healing.
2007-02-09 15:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't really get married after a month of dating someone is desperate in this relationship but like i said dont get married aftter a month of datinh cuz u have to get to know the person verry good before marrying them
2007-02-09 15:30:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋