I Have a sister She is 17 and she is TERRIBLE, Yeah she is a teen and she wants expeience with people and to be social but OMG. I mean one Time her Guy Friend called her and asked her if she wanted th "Hang" Out of Course she said yeah, but she had a friend over and she was baby sitting my 6 year old sister. my dad was at work (3rd Shift) and we dont live with our Mom, Any ways my sister's Friend was smart enough to say she wasnt going. So my little Sister is Sleeping in her own room. my 17 Year old left the house with the Boy. Then couple of minutes later 6 year old wakes up The Friend is in 17 year olds room my litltle Sister starts knocking on the door. The Friend started to worry so she called 17 year old Sis, My sister Text meassage her back saying : DONT LET HER IN " My I remind you this is at Night. So Little Sister is Balling out side the door. Finally 17 year out Comes home after Couple Hours DRUNK Out of Her MIND. I mean She has terrible habits, she dosent learn AT ALL HELP!
2007-02-09 15:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by Gallant_Prince15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to talk to your father about this kind of behavior as soon as possible.
2007-02-09 15:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and where were you while this was going on? If the 17 year old can not be trusted to look after the 6 year old then some one else should be left in charge, I am not saying who is right or who is wrong but the 6 year old sounds like the mature one in this family
2007-02-09 15:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...well, first of all she shouldn't be put in a position to have to be the "responsible one"...she's obviously not. She is exploring and experimenting and maybe not being very careful...I'm not sure what kind of rules/expectations you're father has...or how he is at parenting so its a tough situation.If your sister doesn't 'know"/realize that shes doing something wrong, then she wont want to change...I hope it doesnt take a serious accident for her to realize she needs to slow down the pace...but sometimes thats the way we learn. Ideally a counseling referral should do her some good but really...it's a phase and she's apparently in the exploring part of it ... I don't think you should necessarily make her feel bad...don't accuse her--instead, make her feel good about who she is and how valuable she is---and then eventually she'll realize that she is important, needed, and that people are counting on her and need her support.---much luck*
2007-02-09 15:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you had mentioned your age as well - They are ALL children. But when a little child being neglected or abused, you need to protect him or her. Take the big step and tell your Dad what has happened and you concerns. Ban all of your sisters friends from the property and have your sister grounded until she is old enough to leave home.
2007-02-09 15:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by geoffgilsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a sister like that who likes to party and doesn't help out at all. She was what we called as the "black sheep" of the family. Even if we tell our parents about it she didn't change. Eventually we realized she had emotional problems . There is always a reason behind every action. It might work if you sit down together as a family and talk about it.
2007-02-09 16:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok 1st of all u need 2 tell ur father wat happend and tell him she is sutble 2 baby sit ! she 17 years old gettin tipsy WATS WRONG WIT HER tell dat girl 2 get her act 2getha and remind her dat yall got a 6 year old girl in the house and since she is her older sister she is a big influence on her!
2007-02-09 16:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by jazzyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like u need to to do da porky pig thing & squel nxt time she bails out call dad at work tell him whats going on but not to call her cell phone before he comes home then she'll just think she got caught wit her pants down & ur safe but her butts grass &guess whos gonna mow it ? dad won't be happy if he comes home to find his sweet inocent 17yr. old out doing her bf & gettin drunk instead o watching her bro.&sis like she should be..... who knows u may be saving her life good luck
2007-02-09 16:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by slapjack458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call social services and report the situation.
2007-02-09 15:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by zaeli22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad. I would. Sounds to me like she's not mature enough to be home alone.
2007-02-09 15:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by patchouligirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your dads job to strighten her out. Tell him.
2007-02-09 15:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋