my daughter was molested by her dad. she is 3 and has been out of a diaper for a while now. she had never even had an accident. recently, she has wet herself a few times. also, my is calling us bitches and she just tried to break a televison screen with a remote. i took the remote, then she picked up a glass ball (you know the ones with the water and "snow" and she banged that on the tv and broke the ball.
is this change in behavior related to what her dad did to her? i feel so bad for her, what do i do?
2007-02-09 15:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by lady 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
i'm not sure if he has been arrested. i called the police as soon as we found out. the case will go to the DA. I hope he takes this case, i want him to go away forever.
2007-02-09 15:26:04 · update #1
You need to get professional help. Your daughter is going to need counceling. Even though she is only 3, this is something that will always be with her. She is hurt and confused inside.
And if her dad isnt in prison yet, make certain he is put there. If you dont he will just hurt your little girl again....if not her he will hurt another little girl. He wont stop. Molesting a 3 year old is not a one time thing that people do as a mistake.
2007-02-09 15:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are several things that you can do. Since your daughter's welfare is the primary goal, you should get help for her. I recommend a therapist. If you cannot afford one, contact your local social services/human services department for assistance. As a parent of a sexual assault victim, this is your duty.
Second, you should report the abuse if you have not already done so.
Third, seek a court order which prohibits her father from having any contact with her. In many jurisdictions, this called an "Order for Protection" and it is usually free.
If he has already been criminally charged for abusing your daughter, he will already have been ordered not to have contact with her, so you probable do not need such an order right now.
Fourth, you need to identify why your three-year old is using words like "bitches." Determine who is the source and either cut off any contact with that person, or alter their communication with your daughter. If the person is her father, seek the restraining order I have already explained.
Please remember that you will need to be able to provide some evidence that your daughter was molested by her father in order to obtain any order from the court. Prepare for such a hearing if you are seeking it. Best of luck.
2007-02-09 17:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by snowdrift 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with a child that young, it's too early to say if she is acting out because her dad isn't there, she isn't getting enough attention, because she's spoiled, because she was a victim of child molestation or if you simply have a bad child. I would say she is definitely going to need therapy especially if you know she's not a bad child and you aren't spoiling her. Don't let her get away with things just because of what happened to her. You still have to raise her properly. Once you know for sure that she's acting out because she was a victim, get her in therapy as soon as you can...
As for the father...I hope he goes to jail because they don't treat guys who molest kids to kindly in jail. SICK BASTARD!
2007-02-09 15:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to court and get a restraining order and him declared a child molester. Get her into counseling. She feels his anger and rejection and is acting out.
You and her do not deserve to be called bitches!
That is demeaning and degrading.
Don't ever let him near you all again.
2007-02-09 15:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tumbleweed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd call somebody approximately it. call the Police and tell them approximately your ex being a pedophile and you dont experience risk-free approximately your daughter being there and that they should assist you resolve what would desire to be occurring. dont be afraid to look loopy, that's on your daughters protection. additionally if there is a few thing occurring, the police would desire to get the tale out of your daughter.
2016-09-28 21:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it is just her anger and not understanding what happened to her. You need to seek out a Psychologist whom specializes in molestation.
2007-02-09 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats horrible . I feel sorry for you both. She should be in some type of therapy.
2007-02-09 15:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by prole1984 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's sick. he should be hung and his thing cut off. that sick bastardd
2007-02-09 15:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋