I broke up with her about a year ago but were still friends. We tend to flirt a lot and make jokes. I still kind of like her and I noticed how I messed up. what should I do?
2007-02-09 15:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there is a lot of questions I would have to ask you before answering this..Like how bad did you mess up? Why did you break up with her? All I can say is, if you like her for who she is I think you should tell her. But remember, you have to earn your trust back. She is prob hesitant to get back with you because you have hurt her once before. Are u only liking her for the chase? Do u tend to have that pattern? do u normally like girls who play hard to get? Or do u sincerely like her? I think its great you posted this question, to me that means its really on your mind. Go for it! She may be the love of your life..if not. Ce la vie.
2007-02-09 15:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you dont know what you have until its gone. its great that you can both be friends and joke around as this can bring you closer.
maybe your better off friends then lovers but only time will tell.
if your feelings become stronger for her and she isnt in a relationship, then let her know how you feel, she might be feeling the same but to afraid to tell you.
good luck.
2007-02-09 15:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. maybe shell feel the same way and misses u too. im a girl and i like this guy if he told me he felt the same way id be so flattered. and even if she doesnt feel the same way at least u can say u tried, instead of never knowing what could have been. just give it a shot, most lieky she likes you too! thats why shes so close to you,
2007-02-09 15:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by smosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... two choices... tell her how you feel and ask how she feels. Maybe she has the same feelings and would love to hear how you feel you can do better next time. OR realize that she is just flirting with you to boost herself up.
2007-02-09 15:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up or talk in person.. or send a card.. tell her you value her as a friend and need her to be in your life.. tell her you have matured and realize you made mistakes and she means a lot to you and ask her if she will go out with you to wherever.. tell her you need this to make peace with yourself to grow as an individual and miss her. good luck dude
2007-02-09 15:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still dont like her that much, im sure she isnt waiting around to see if you will ask to take her back. If she is, then whoa....like my ex told me, she wont look back, and looking back, im glad that she didnt.
2007-02-09 15:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by EyeKneadPoints 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋