well i moved out here from england to the usa and it was me my mum n my dad, 2 mounths ago my mum found out my dad was cheetin on here wid 2 woman! but seein as how kind she is she took him bk, after christmas we could only aford to send me bk to usa. hopefully my mum is comin bk wen we go bk in march n go bk here. anyway i was just lookin at my dads cell and i found a message... from the same girl he was foolin around wid b4. im to ashaimed to say wt it said but it proved 100% he is still wid here. what do i do? tell my mum while im out here n b stuk wid my dad and him like ignorin me till i go bk to england, if i dont get sent strait home. or tell her when im bk their n have my dad cast to the street. or wait till we get bk and let her find out her self. i need sudgestions and arnsers. im only 12 nearly 13! plz help!
2007-02-09 15:01:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are definitely in a tuff spot. Your mom has a right to know what kind of a scum bag she is maried to though. Sorry, I know this is your dad, but would you want your mom to be happy with another man or be miserable with this one, not to mention HURT when she does find out. Your mom deserves a man who will treat her and you like the decent people you are and not like trash.
Tell her so she can get on with her life.
2007-02-09 15:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that maybe you shouldn't tell your mom. She will find out anyway, and I'm not sure you want to be in the position of being the one to tell her; it would put you in between.
I'm really sorry about your situation; you are in a tough spot no matter what happens.
2007-02-09 15:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cris O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom what you saw.
dont make things up.
in situations like this, sometimes the truth is the only way out.
be strong and tell your mom what you saw. you're not making it up.
and let your dad knows that if he wants to cheat... he might as well separate from your mom. saves her the heartache. and he's basically still wanting to see other girls.
tell your mom.
be strong.
2007-02-09 15:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by ladybleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋