she turned me down. i already wrote her a letter how awkward it is to be just friends for me, but i dont regret knowing her and that i still consider her outstanding of all the ppl i met. she replid she's busy right now and the next day said the letter was funny. we havent seen in a while, but lately we ran to each other a couple of times. she asked how i was and said i was good and then i just left..she seems to want to 'make peace' and be friends. im not bitter anymore, but i feel its not even gonna work being friends with her..am i doing the right thing? or does she think im being bitter(we dont even call each other, not even greeted xmas or new year)
2007-02-09 14:48:54 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can act however you want!
2007-02-09 14:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying that you are wrong, but you should at least hear her side. Maybe she had a good reason to not go out with you. She probably wants to date you, but she is afraid that if you do go out with her, you willl hurt her, leave her, etc;and she dont wanna lose a good friend. If you really wanna go out with her, dont give up on her. The best way to get hooked up with someone is to be friends first.
2007-02-09 22:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be friends but i dont think you should be best friends, just say hi when you see her and maybe get a birthday card, x-mas card etc. but dont stop being friends.because if you break up with another girl or she breaks up with you, it could come a habit and you might end up having no friends at all.
2007-02-09 22:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Darth Maul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find her as a good freind, then dont ignore her. but if shes gonna blow you off then blow her off, thats how i see it, ecspecially if you write to her a couple times and she dosnt write back....unless you really care about her...â¥
2007-02-09 22:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋