she is new at school and we talk once. We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 4-5 friends, but 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. In a way I kinda like her. What's up with her?
2007-02-09 14:42:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start up a conversation with her again and see how it goes. be polite. You alread had one conversation so it should be easy to have another conversation with her. Maybe she didn't see you or gets nervous when she sees someone she likes. I avoid looking at people I kinda like in fear that, ooh I don't want him to see me with a pimple on my forehead or any ole ' thing. I can tell u really like this chick because u have more than one question up about her on yahoo answers. I think she likes u too. :) Your next move is starting up that 2nd conversation and letting her know that she's cool because she thinks she is a loser and is very self-conscious and afraid of what u may think of her. She obviously has a low self-esteem so she might be like 'oho, what if he sees me with a pimple or in this ugly outfit, etc. I am such a loser. I can't look at him." IF ALL ELSE FAILS and she isn't getting the message that u like her, tell her to get on yahoo answers sometime and write in the search box: What is up with this girl?
2007-02-09 14:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs a friend. Someone to talk to. Someone to make her feel good about herself. She has apparently had a bad trip or some bad breaks. Invite her to do something simple. Somehow you need to break the ice. Feelings will have to come later. She is not ready right now. get her to smile or laugh. She needs some fun. get her mind off her troubles. Compliment her, but be sincere. Small touches might ne nice, but be observant of her responses. make her feel important, or useful. Show her how things are better because of her, or because she is here. Take your time.
2007-02-09 23:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you, but "What's up with her?" is a question you will be asking for the rest of your life. If you ever figure out women, you'll be a billionaire. If you can convince people that you've figured out women, you could be at least a millionaire.
2007-02-09 22:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she called herself a loser because girls want your attention and pity. girls also like to play hard to get. have fun with the challenge!
2007-02-09 22:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by chickwithbrains233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋