Its kinda hard to explain but could having a relationship with another make you lose alot of chances of what you want to do in the future than just being friends with the person you like?
2007-02-09 14:42:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-09 14:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, I would much rather love a person. You never know what may come up in the future. It is like opening Pandoras Box, but it wont kill you. But the best way to tell if you love a person is being friends first, than go out with the person, than you either love them for the rest of your life, lose a really good friend, or still be really good friends.
2007-02-09 22:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you feel very strongly about a person it is better to risk having a relationship with her than to stay friends. there are more fun things to do with athe person you love and who knows you might end up together til the end?! than to stay friends and never knew what it was like if you have been together rather than just friends.
love entails taking risks because without risking something you will never experience happiness
but if you are happy just being her friend, then stay true friends with her. no problem with that!
sometimes, there are events in a friendship that eventually leads two people to be more than friends and that is more fun. being friends and becoming lovers is also nice
if you are a sincere person everyrthing will turn up the way want them to be. fate sometimes has the answers...
godbless!!
2007-02-09 22:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love your friends (not necessarily in THAT way though). You know, if a person can't accept that you have friends then he or she is the one with the problems and you don't want to fall in love with somebody with problems do you? I personally would be more wary of somebody who didn't have any friends. Additionally, if you are in love with somebody you shouldn't have to give up your friends. If you are in a relationship and your partner tries to coerce you to break it off with your friends (unless you are romantically involved, of course) that is a warning sign.
2007-02-09 22:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dean D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was up to me I would rather be loving a person than being friends. But, the way things are in this world. I can't but wonder if their such thing as soul mates anymore...
2007-02-09 22:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving a person
2007-02-09 22:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Justin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you cross the line with a friend you cant go back, so just figure out if you want this friend more as a lover and a relationship or if you just want to stay friends
2007-02-09 22:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive lost some realy great friends tryng to gain chances w/other relationships@ the same time i dont know if i make any since to you but i say stick w/your first mind and always trust your gut feelings! good luck
2007-02-09 22:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by james m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, being friends only brings you closer. It will eventually have to happen. And besides, love only lasts so long, depending on the kind.
2007-02-09 22:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mikail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to love that person as a friend and let it flow because if you rush into things to fast you lost that person as a friend so just take it slow
2007-02-09 22:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by ducey85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bieng friends
2007-02-09 22:45:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋