There is this guy I like and he plays all the girls he dates he tries to get in there pants is there anyway I could change him he has been looking at me lately?
2007-02-09 14:41:42 · 19 answers · asked by Abstinent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie! Here is news! He will not change! You cannot change him,his dear mother cannot change him and if he grows up to be a player his wife cannot change him! I know a man that in high school had every girl that was willing, in college the same. He married and began cheating almost immediately! He finally divorced his wife for a girl friend and then started cheating on the girlfried! Over the years he never changed. He is now 63 years old and is cheating on his current live in girlfried. Run! Run! Run! Fast.
2007-02-09 14:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Raina R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find out if you go out with him. If you do and tries to get into your pants as well, hold back and tell him you are not like the others. Then, ignore him for days until he comes to you and asks for forgiveness. You can tell if he wants to change because of you if he postpone every single attempt for an intercourse. Just don't go easily about this. Make him wait for months if he decides to be with you in a relationship after the first date and the apology.
2007-02-09 22:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by galadriel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People have to change themselves no one can do it for them.
You had better ask yourself how much self worth you have because you already know what he wants.
Now are you better than a one night stand or not?
Go out with him and even if you do not do anything, he will tell the world you did.
This sounds like the kind of guy that has to have the reputation of a stud.
2007-02-09 22:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you will not ever be able to change him. sure if you manage you may succeed for a bit but he will still end up rotten in the end. save yourself the misery and move on to someone who will adore you the right way
2007-02-09 23:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you like the guy who is a player. now hes looking at you. how romantic. you think you want to change him. are you sure you will like him if he did change. of course not. nice guys just aren't as exciting as the bad boys. never try to change anyone. its their choice to be who they are. not yours.
2007-02-09 22:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change nobody. The only way they are going to change is if they want to.the more you try to change someone the more they rebel
2007-02-09 22:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by iguanatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could make he keep quessing but it is really hard to change a bad guy good some times it works and sometimes it doesnt
2007-02-09 22:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by alexandra a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, guys like us dont change...sorry.
2007-02-09 22:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by dangoinvestor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change someone. They have to change themself.
2007-02-09 22:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Simple Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, he will only change if he wants to.
Even if he says he wants to, change is hard.
be careful
2007-02-09 22:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋