Cliff notes
-she gave what I took as "hints" that she was somewhat interested.
-got her number
-txt her to see whats up and told her in txt that we should do something this weekend(mon)
-called her tues and asked her to go to lunch with me, which she said yes, what time, when to meet, etc
Well basically I came to class today (friday) and she was there and we talked for a little while. I didn't mention that we were going to go out for lunch during class or before class. This girl that sits behind me is the girl that I walk with to my math class(she has a bf) starts messing with me like she tries to poke the back of my head and giggles a little bit because she said she was bored. And after that, she asks for my chapstick. When the class ended, the girl that I walk with to math class and the girl I like part ways. While in my math class, I text her where we should meet for lunch (so that we can walk together to my car and drive to the place).
2007-02-09 14:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by John C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More Details: She then text: "hey i totally spaced and my advisor needs to meet with me at 12:15 today. I AM SOOO SORRY!! I'll make it up to you and it'll be my treat" which i then reply "alright when" and then she said "we could do it next week sometime". When my math class ended i call her and no answer. about two hours later i call her again and still no answer.
What should i do?
2007-02-09 14:32:28 · update #1
Have you tried talking to her instead of texting?
2007-02-09 14:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by DannyK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she stood you up. But not because she doesn't like you, she stood you up because she thinks you are a player. Reasons:
1 - you didn't mention lunch with her to her face
2 - ol girl with the bf made her think that you and her have a thing or whatever
Mix the two situations together and she thinks that you couldn't confirm luch with her during class because you didn't want the other girl to know about your plans... making you seem like a total jerk to her.
How to make things right:
Ask her how her advisor meeting went and if you can take her out to lunch during your next class, in front of the girl with the bf. Don't call or text her in the meantime.
2007-02-09 22:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by my name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well starters, don't get too serious too soon!!
Can't say i don't blame her for wanting not to go for lunch with you that day as planned. She was furious that you were flirting with another girl (who already has a boyfriend) and either she decided not to bother, or she really couldn't make it.
Note to self: don't flirt w/ other girls, infront of the girl you're interested in.
If that other girl starts being 'playful' again in class, just tell her she sure is flirtatous for having a boyfriend. And ask her if her boyfriend knows she's so flirty w/ other guys. Say it jokingly of course, you realise she pissed off the other girl right? So piss her off a lilttle bit by saying something.
But maybe you're still in elementary school??
2007-02-09 22:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen to me before. its very frustrating but it worked out for me.. So she probably did see all that go on and is more than likely confused. If she wont answer your calls I would send her a nice little text message and tell her what the deal was between you and your other friend and tell her you like her and would like to hang out and get to know each other. and just let it flow from there.. But if nothing else works just let her make up her mind on what she wants to do.. dont worry she'll tell you if she wants to have that lunch with ya.. well hope this helps and good luck.
2007-02-09 22:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by SPEEDY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, STOP calling/texting her. I know you're jazzed over her but calling too much makes you look desperate. Not a good thing.
Second, let her come to you with DEFINITE plans. If she sets something up with you, then chalk it up to her just having life's everyday issues getting in the way. It happens to all of us. If she doesn't set something up with you then don't take it personally. You'll be bummed for a day or two and then go back out there and see what else is out there.
2007-02-09 22:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this girl just 4 got about this 'date' and is sorry. Just because of one time doesn't meant that it will happen again. If she doesn't show 4 the next 'date' then i would say that she stood you up. As 4 now just don't worry. The girl in your math class likes you!!! (just saying)
2007-02-09 22:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see her again ask her when is a good time for her so you can plan around it. Does she have a return number for you if not call once more leave a return number after that stop calling. If she gives you another half *** answer tell her to just call you when she wants to go then forget it good luck
2007-02-09 22:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by dominanyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If should have not called, she stood you up. Maybe, she did not feel comfort with you and your classmate, a little jealous. She might think you like to play the field. It is her lost and some luck woman gain. Good Luck.
2007-02-09 23:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, she said she would schedule something, just let her make the next move. Don't look too eager, chill.
2007-02-09 22:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out and explain to her you and the other girl had nothing going on. Thats why she probabily bailed on you.
2007-02-09 22:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋