I think im beginng to like this guy............but he's my bff's boyfriend.....he's nice to me and all.......as friends but i don't want to be jelous of my friend.....how do i stop liking this guy???
2007-02-09 14:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should talk to your BBF about this.. she'll understand and probably help you to get over him! Just don't choose a boy over a friendship!
2007-02-09 14:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Vikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, it's almost impossible to just stop liking a guy just because you want to, and I'm only saying it because I know, and it's hard to get over someone. As cute and funny as he might be, he's still your best friend's boyfriend and you don't want to interfere with her happiness. Best friends before guys. If something does happen with your friend and her boyfriend and the opportunity does come up for you two to go out, I would ask your friend first. Just casually bring it up and see how she feels. If she says she's over him and you can give it a shot, well then go for it! If she still has feelings for him or is uncomfortable with that, stay away. But you can still be friends of course!
But for now, try to keep a little bit of distance between you and him. Just hang on for now and things will work out.
Hope this helped!
2007-02-09 22:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles2991 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it is that you feel he is a nice guy and you really like the way he treats your friend and want to be treated that way. You need to try to be happy for your friend and try to find a guy who will treat you as well he treats her.
2007-02-09 22:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Starshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly want to stop liking him list his bad traits. Once you think about them they will become exemplified and you won't like him anymore.
2007-02-09 22:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember how much more important your friendship is that that boy. there are PLENTY of boys out there, but you might never have another friend like her
2007-02-09 22:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by chickwithbrains233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋