This guy I used to know is stalking me, following me around, asking my friends about, calling me, and sending me emails. Most of me wishes he'd stop, but another part likes the attention and excitement--especially since I used to like him, and possibly still do. Still, I know he doesn't have control over himself and can be dangerous. What should I do?
2007-02-09 14:27:32 · 10 answers · asked by Aly L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You appear to be as sick as he is. You two should run far from each other. Your lack of action to stop him is enabling him for your own amusement. Get serious and get help to stop this.
2007-02-09 14:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by tock522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i think that you should write down all of the good things about this guy and all of the bad. Think really hard. If there is more bad things then good then you have no feeling for him as more then a friend. If there is more good, then i think that you like him as more then a Friend and that this stalking is just a way to show that he likes you! If you find out that you like him then i would ask him out and hook up!
2007-02-09 14:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi the main thing is can you in your heart really take the risk if theres no way you can trust him fully then you never will because of what you know about him, as you said here, what you need to do is be very carefull, think of ways that makes it hard for him to follow you , do what you need to do so you can be happy again and move on , maybe think of doing some sleft defence classers lets see him follow you there . will help u im sure.
2007-02-09 14:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do! the single's that say they don't are likely lieing! My boyfriend admitted to stalking my profile well-known for 6 months earlier he even spoke to me! also, I stay with 3 guy roommates and they do all of it the time, finding out the present images, modern-day 'likes' etc. not lots of them may admit it nonetheless lol
2016-11-26 20:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem this guy keeps on bothering me he comes over,calls me,asks me out,stands by my locker,waits for me in the hallway,walks me to class (even though i go ahead of him so no one notices) but he still is a good person, tell him face to face the truth make sure he understands your decisions and the consequences if he doesn't, it worked a little for me (he only stopped calling) um but if that doesn't help tell him that he is stalking you and that you never are going to see the good in him if he doesn't back off! good luck! happy v day too
2007-02-09 14:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by a8130909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. that's not called stalking though. he doesn't sound dangerous, it's a typical shy method of liking a girl. it will only get dangerous when he's going through your trash, breaking into your locker or watching you through his new russian night-vision goggles.
2007-02-09 14:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run with it. If you aren't totally creeped out, you probably ain't ALL THAT. Who knows, he may actually be cool. You may have just found your soul mate.
On the other hand, in CA, that can get him 7 years. LOL
2007-02-09 14:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police!
2007-02-09 14:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order
2007-02-09 14:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it CAN be dangerous so TELL your parents, friends, and even your principal.
2007-02-09 14:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋