worst i don't even think she likes me as a friend anymore. i miss her, and can't bear thinking she might hate me. she use to like me back but i think she hates me now bc i got mad at her and said i didn't want to talk anymore, then said it wasn't her fault, that i was just stressed out, but she hasn't returned my e-mail. now she has a boyfriend. i have good friends and a life i am grateful for, but i feel so depressed bc i want a life with this girl. i just turned 24 and i think now i'll be alone forever. how can i feel better about this?
2007-02-09 14:20:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET HER BACK OR FIND SOME ONE ELSE TO PUT YOUR MIND ON
2007-02-09 14:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Angelia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that, I feel for you I'm going thru a somewhat similar situation. I cant tell you that you will forget about or hey open your eyes forget her, I cant tell you those things because they wont help, but the advice I can give you is this:
Have you talked to her? Not through email maybe on the phone or face to face. There is nothing better than being honest about what you feel for her, and her knowing that. Forget about the boyfriend for a second you are not disrespecting him anyway you are just letting her know your feelings. If she feels the same way for you , then you were honest and its great, but if her feelings have changed and she moved on, the closure you need from her is to hear that. Its hard for you right now because you feel that because of you, you lost her but don't look at it like that and dwell over that because it will kill you. If she does decide that she wants to move on, then its time for you to do the same. At least know that you told her how you felt and that is the most you can do. Pick up a hobbie, spend time with your friends, with your family something that keeps you busy. Depression is a very ugly thing and I don't want that for you, I'm pretty sure you don't either. Be careful it can lead to devasting actions. Your life is not over its only begun. A heartbreak is terrible but we all can survive from it or them. It probably wont be your first or your last, its the way you deal with them that is important. I know that you are loved by many, and you will be ok... remember positive thinking=positive outcome...
2007-02-09 22:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike you she is NOT an EMO kid...she moved on without you.
Try with another chick. That one is history, I hate to say.
Better luck next time
2007-02-09 22:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋