Can someone please help me with this?(Major Problem)?

Question

I have a boyfriend and we have been together going on 2 yrs off and on, he has children and i don't. Yes, he still deals with his kids mothers i think because if they call and i am with him he wants me to be quite. The thing is everytime i leave him we end up back together somehow. I don't like the fact that he still messing around with his baby mommas but he is really a good man to be 24 yrs old. HOW DO I SOLVE THIS PROBLEM WITHOUT LEAVING HIM?

Answer 1

i hate to break it to you, but this guy is a cheater a two timer, etc. he doesnt have strong enough feelings for you. he thinks he can do wahtever he wants because he knows you will get back together with him. he thinks he has control over you and thats not good. you need to leave him. i know it may be difficult. but this man is not going to change anytime soon, and sadly there is not much you can do about it. he tells you to be quiet when he's talking to his ex's [babys moms]. thats not good. at all. that means he's playing you right in front of your face. youre lowering yourself for him. dont do it. no guy is worth it. it may be hard, but let him go.

Answer 2

Girl, he's playing you - you need to step out and let him deal with the momma drama

Answer 3

As long as you enable him he will always cheat..he cheats and you take him back...I made the mistake of doing that...and it happened again.He won't change you have to make him decide and if he can't leave him.

Answer 4

if he doesnt deal with the mother of his kids then he cannot every see his kids, would you rather him be the ******* who doesnt take the time and effort to see them?

Answer 5

hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back