anyway, i asked this guy out and he said yes. but at the dance, he told us all that he liked another girl and asked me if i would help him with her... technicly, we never went out, but wh do i feel .....sad? or upset? how do i deal with thest bs feelings.
2007-02-09 14:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by MeMyselfAndI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the first guy i ever went out with..
2007-02-09 15:28:44 · update #1
Let him marry Frank. He was stupid enough to deny you, so why do you want him? You are a divine beauty and way too cute for him, so drop him like he's not hot (which he isn't) oooooo tssssssssss
Totally know where your coming from
from me
2007-02-09 16:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by xandrasings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, that was rude of him. I'm guessing that you asked him out because you kind of liked him, right? The feeling you're having are normal. Try to move on and move past those feelings. If you actually help him - not that he really deserves it - it might make you feel better.
2007-02-09 14:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
=[[ gurl i feel you. i would be sad an upset. why us gurls get our hopes up thinkin they like us when they really are only using us for there pleasure. honey the only adive that i can trutly give u and will help you out.. is to move on =] and find a real man who loves you for who you are.
best of luck. my wishes to ya.
2007-02-09 14:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this guy is using you to get to someone you know. You might get so caught up in the fact that he said "yes" and concentrate on that to much where you become blind to what his motives are. I personally tend to focus to much on positives that i forget the negatives.
2007-02-09 14:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lipiew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel upset because when he said yes, you thought he liked you like that but he didnt. he liked someone else. and it hurts when you like someone and the like someone else, i know. the best way to deal with it, is not to get to upset over it, becuase you are still friends and thats good. and you should wish him all the luck and trust me the bad feelings will pass. good luck :]
2007-02-09 14:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup, he used you. You feel that way because you wanted to be with him. He has let you down as a friend. Get a new friend.
2007-02-09 14:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
r hurt because u thought he liked u..and he ended up liken some other gurl....sooo just forget himmm....his a jerk...u can do better then that...
2007-02-09 14:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by linda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a jerk always a jerk...he used you, don't get used again...
2007-02-09 14:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
..tell him to get his own dates....and you cannot help him anymore....
2007-02-09 14:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by chillie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋