My dream girl asked me to the dance I have tomorrow night, I'm so excited. but idk if she knows exactally how i feel. I wanted to just surprise her and kiss her after a slow dance, they always play "Back at One" and thats our song so i want to kiss her after we dance to that. I thought it would be sweet to just look her deep in the eyes and tell her I love her and kiss her softly nothing to aggressive just a lil love kiss. Is this a good idea? I really would like some other advice too, I want her to notice me and like me back. so please any advice or ideas please tell me. thanks for the help.
2007-02-09 14:08:57 · 31 answers · asked by sarge7826 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're moving way to fast. Just stick to dancing or you'll scare her away. Be yourself and just have a good time until you get to know each other better.
2007-02-09 14:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a really good idea, but warm up to her first. Just don't kiss her out of the blue or anything like that. And also wait for the I love you. It might scare her a little and she may think you're rushing into things a little to quickly. But warm up with a hug before any kissing is involved and see how she reacts to that. If everything goes good then see if she'll accept the kiss. Good Luck
2007-02-09 22:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by does it matter wat this says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously has noticed you and likes you back, so definately go for the love kiss and look her deep in the eyes, but i wouldn't say anything.
"i love you" has different levels of strength for different people and sometimes those who take it more seriously might get kind of surprised and worried that you like them too much.
if your dream girl did what she did, i wouldn't worry too much about it working out for something better. and in a few weeks, after you guys have been together a little while, tell her that she's your dream girl as a starting point for "i love you"
good luck, have fun, and enjoy the dance (and kiss)
2007-02-09 22:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by i wish i knew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think youre moving too fast.... If she has texting on her cellfone and u do 2...and if u have her number, text her and kind of talk to her about it..not like kissing her but like how youre excited for tha dance and stuff like that. youre a guy you can figure it out.
But, I mean if youre like in tha moment or whatever, youll definately be able to tell by how shes acting. You should be able 2 tell if shes comfortable or not.
But i think that the, "I love you" IS too soon. That word, that phrase...scares girls. It's not the boy whos saying it, its just a scary person. My first love..and my person I still love, when i heard i was freaked out. Not because it was weird coming form him its just like oh ive heard this before and all that kind of stuf and you just get kinda freaked out... like WOW im growing up. Do you know what im gettin at? First offf, WHAT GRADE ARE YOU IN?! It depends, so I guess you can E-mail me if you need any help
Hyper_tina@yahoo.com
Im guessing youre in 8th or 9th grade??
2007-02-09 22:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by crazy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't tell her you love her, you'll freak her out. Second, take a clue from her, if you lean in for that soft kiss and she backs away, let it go.
As for noticing you, she already has by the fact that she asked you out. All you have to do is play it smart and behave like the gentleman you are. Towards the end of the evening, ask her out if the both you have a good time.
2007-02-09 22:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not kiss her too soon. You may chase her away. I say take it easy see if she wants to kiss you. Be friendly, polite and enjoy some real fun with her dancing. All things will come together on their own. A girl does not go to a dance by herself. She usually invites someone she likes.
2007-02-09 22:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds very romantic to me. She asked you......that means she's interested. Just be a gentleman, open doors for her, etc. So my answer to you would be yes.....it's a good idea. As you said, don't be aggressive, you may want to wait and see how the night goes before you tell her you love her though. Good luck to you and your romantic evening, and have a great time at your dance. Take care!
Ok......so we're all wondering......it's been several days now.....how did it go??? What happened???
2007-02-09 22:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't it be moving a little to fast? I mean you just started dating yesterday right? Saying "I love you" is more for long term relationships. Im not trying to bring you down, but saying the 'L' word is probably a bad idea. A kiss, i think, is a good idea. Good luck! â¥â¥â¥â¥ ^_^
2007-02-09 22:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by yomonkeysdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay with the I love you. Don't go too fast. I might even stay with "I like you" or something like that. Don't scare her. If you want to be risky, go for it. If you want to make sure that you can keep her, go slow. It would be really cute if it worked out, though. But, stuff like that only happens on TV shows.
2007-02-09 22:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Super_Colts_Fan♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Let each other know how you feel. Good communication is a key to a happy relationship. Ask her what she likes and what her hobbies are. Tell her what you like to do and what your hobbies are as well. For any kind of relationship you need to communicate to each other.
2007-02-09 22:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋