My daughter's 2nd birthday falls on a Sunday, and I'd prefer to have the party that day (it will be lunch and cake at about 12 p.m.). Most kids' parties I've been to have been on Saturdays, though. Do people have a preference when it comes to attending a Saturday or Sunday party, or does it not matter?
2007-02-09 14:05:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Great input from everyone so far! I am not going to pick a best answer on this one, since so many people have differing opinions. I think I'll just let it go into voting. But I do appreciate your advice, everyone, thanks so much!
2007-02-10 17:22:31 · update #1
sunday's are fine-you should just make it late enough in the day so that people have time to go to church if that is their preference. they shouldn't have to choose between church and the party.
2007-02-09 14:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sharp Marble 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
While I don't have any kids, I would think that Sunday is a better day. I feel Saturdays tend to be for shopping, cleaning, maybe parents have to take kids to sporting events, etc. By having it on Sunday, it gives people a reason to get out of the house, and actually be somewhat productive on Sunday, but its not like they have a whole day of stressful stuff planned. The only conflict on Sundays though, might be church, but most peole could go early, and still have plenty of time to make a 12pm birthday. Good luck, and Happy Birthday to your daughter!
2007-02-09 14:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by clarkdubya2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
On Sundays, if you have the party around 2-4 or so, you do not have to do lunch, just finger foods. Most people eat Sunday dinner (or at least in the south) after church so it is really easier to do a Sunday party. Not so much expected and people do not have to give up Saturdays for a party.
Do what works for you and have fun with it. Don't stress out, just enjoy your baby.
2007-02-09 15:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always have my kids birthday parties on the day of their birthday until they are older and they understand why. Most other parents understand that too, so they won't mind going to a party on a Sunday. The only thing is, that for folks like me who go to church, and don't get out until noon, the timing might be not so great. I would suggest, unless you know that church will not be an issue for any of the other families, that you maybe try 12:30 or one o'clock. Have fun!
2007-02-09 14:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by sfb_wolfpack_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People want time to relax after attending a little kids party, and before the week starts again, so I would do it on the day that you want, but start at 11:30 and not make it go too long. But it's probably not a big deal for people to come on Sunday, if that's what you want--go for it!
2007-02-09 14:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by i wish i knew 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We had our sons first birthday party on a Sunday...his actual birthday. We made sure to have the party at 1:00 so if anyone was going to church they could still come to the party. It was the perfect time for a party...we had enough time to set up, and the party was over early enough to still do whatever else after.
2007-02-09 14:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I really resent Sunday birthday parties. We don't even get home from church till after 12, and then it's such a short afternoon till evening church activities (starts at 5:30). We like to do something as a family like go to the local pier, or to the pool, or something. I often pass on Sunday parties, personally. It's a special day.
2007-02-09 15:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it don't matter most ppl do prefer sat but if the invites are out early enough they will plan to come but Sunday church don't get over til 12 so i would plan it for like 1230 and put food fun games cake on the invites or what ever u want just to let them know there will be lunch so they don't decide not to come because of being hungry after church
2007-02-09 14:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to have a kid party on Saturday. It's easier for parents (they may have church services to attend on Sunday). Plus, you will have a whole day to recuperate after the festivities! If you do a Sunday, do it very early! I think it would be better attended on on Saturday.
2007-02-09 14:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well really it's all up to you, if the ppl you ask to go want to be there they will be no matter what day it is. But I do know from personal experience that if you have to work on mondays that it may be easier to have the party sat just so you have to clean up from the party and not be rushed and also to be able to spend time the next day with your daughter and relax befor another work week.
2007-02-09 14:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky Mamma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I know my girlfriend has been to many parties on Sunday. The only thing she complains about is they have them at 1 pm which is her son's nap time. Actually, most kids nap at 1 pm. So, that's the only conflict. But, I think you've escaped that by starting it an hour early. At least nap time won't get skipped for a cranky toddler at six!
2007-02-09 14:08:48 · answer #11 · answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋