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I like this one guy at my school but I am not sure if he is gay or not. He keeps smiling at me but and its hard to tell if he is gay or if he is just being friendly. Its really hard to tell tho. I like him alot. Sometimes my friend friends give me advice but they really suck. I try smiling at him too and he looks shy or something to smile back. I always see him looking at me. So anyone got any advice?

2007-02-09 14:03:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

get into a casual conversation with him and ask him if he has a girlfriend/likes a girl, etc... if he says yes, then this answers your question (he's probably not gay and he's just being friendly). if he says no, if you want to continue on the subject, ask him if he thinks any girls are cute or any past girlfriends, stuff like that. however, you should be careful because you don't want him to get the impression that you are really into girls and that might push him away if he really does like you. so maybe you shouldn't push the subject too much. if you are feeling brave, ask him if he likes guys or girls. tell him you dont care but you're just curious. if he says girls, he might actually be gay, but he just isnt open about it or he's too shy to tell you, especially if you guys aren't close friends or you haven't really had too many conversations before... and if he says he gay, then you can take it from there. this doesn't have to happen in one day, just casually drop hints or bits and pieces into conversations that will give him clues that you're interested without being openly attracted to him. he might be exactly like you are right now, wondering if you like him or if the body language and eye contact don't mean anything at all. i think between all of this, you'll be able to figure it out. hope this helps, and good luck!! p.s. most people respect people who are openly honest, so muster some courage and tell him how you feel if you're up to the challenge. otherwise, it'll work itself out. don't sweat it, you'll be fine.

2007-02-09 14:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you already know
I think he's gay
Men dont smile silently at each other unless they are gay

2007-02-09 14:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0 0

if he knows your gay and he's smiling at u then he's probably gay.

2007-02-09 14:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Luvedbydarkness 1 · 0 0

hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back

2007-02-09 14:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YOU SOUND LIKE YOUR A BIT THAT WAY SWEETCHEEKS!!!!! BOTTOMS UP???

2007-02-09 14:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Spanky the monkey !!! 6 · 0 0

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