it's the same old stuff you hear... girl loves boy, but the boy does not love the girl... my close guy friend is married but I think I am in love with him... but I can not say anything... what should I do?
I don't want him to feel strange around me.. help
2007-02-09 13:54:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STAY AWAY!!!! I was in the same situation. The only diffrence is I ended up pregnant and he is now no where around. If he is feeling you and tries to pursue something becareful if he is going to mess around on his wife with you he will mess on you....trust me been there done that...now i have a 15 month old daughter to prove it.
2007-02-09 14:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are definitely going to have to put distance between the two of you regardless. If you have feelings for him, being his close friend is only going to enable your feelings to grow. I would not act on my feelings, but I disagree with the others...I actually WOULD tell him how I felt. That way it won't be on your chest. I would tell him why I was putting distance between us and then stay away. Its not being a homewrecker unless you are messing around with him. So if you aren't I disagree with the people who called you one. I agree on the fact that you need to keep your distance. Its going to be painful, not to mention the fact that we often want what we know we can't have. But its better for everyone and less painful if you don't continue to put yourself in a situation where you will be around him.
2007-02-09 22:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by mzstorm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You will ruin 3 lives, yours, his and his wives. And hopefully they don't have children. You need to make up an excuse or just avoid him all around. It's just not worht it, if in a couple of years the two of you end up single then maybe give it a shot. Right now is just not the time.
2007-02-09 22:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a woman with experience, I have to say, it's always been an excellent idea to go after married men. Go for it, don't be scared! Everything will work itself out, and he'll leave his wife for you! :)
Plus...free kids without the work! Good luck!
2007-02-09 22:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple he's MARRIED you honor that by keeping ""you"" outta his marriage. Home wreckers are never respected and in the end men don't leave their wife's you will lose and you will be looked at as a tramp for starting things with a husband respect marriage vows no matter how much you think you like him do everyone a favor don't act on it you'll regret and and hopefully his wife will kick your butt for it.
2007-02-09 22:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone.
Even Dr.Phil is going to suggest you the same thing.
There are many fish in the ocean. He is not the only guy you're going to fall in love with.
2007-02-09 21:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by limited_edition78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone....There is no future in messing with a married man.Get yourself a boyfriend, or a hobby.
2007-02-09 22:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by lady_godiva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to find someone else to love and stop trying to be a home-wrecker! i'm sure all the married women would agree!
2007-02-09 21:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by honeybear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. Be a good friend and just support his marriage. Find yourself a man of your own.
2007-02-09 22:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mangomum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all he's married and u shouldnt have got with him in the first place, thats low, second of all u need to end it with him and stop being a HOMEWRECKER!!!! GROW UP, THINK OF HIS WIFE HE'S A LOSER 2............FIND A GUY WHO ANT MARRIED OR TAKEN.......
2007-02-09 22:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Summer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋