i just met a guy twice. He is nice and i think he likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why). besides, he often send me sms for invitation around 1 hour before the dating time. Why cant he do it earlier, e.g few hours or even one day in advance?
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he ask " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
besides, he wants to meet me at weekends only, NOT on weekdays, i.e after working hours. why is that?
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?
p.s: he is living alone and he is not married
2007-02-09 13:52:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
don';t waste your time. People who are serious about you, will respect your time enough to call, and talk and then ask you if you have plans for such and such night...... he's selfish and inconsiderate. We give our best when we first meet people, if this is his best, imagine his worst...
2007-02-09 14:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by misseasygoing 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you want to consult this guy. provide to take him out to lunch or perhaps as both of you're on my own, tell him the way you sense about him. allow him comprehend you omit being in a relationship with him, and also you've been wondering if he felt an same. not something will ease your innovations, like the actuality, even if that's good information or undesirable. in basic terms because he nevertheless loves you, would not propose he must be dedicated to you, the purely way you'll comprehend for certain is in case you come acceptable out and ask.good success!
2016-11-26 20:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not take you very seriously
I think it is rude sending you messages for asking you out, he should call you and it is rude too to not ask you if you have time for it...he is owning your time, I could not say it in other way. He thinks he owns your time and you will be available whenever he wants. I think you shouldn't answer his SMS and say no to one asking out telling him you have something to. The problem is you are sooo available girl, that's why he feels confident to ask you out like that.
2007-02-09 14:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to explain things to him about calling ahead for a date...better yet print these answers and give them to him.
Is it possible that he maybe does not have phone service but just has texting? I know you can do that on Megatalk phones with a card, I do not know about other prepaids. Also it may be cheaper for him to text and at that time. You need to ask and get his side before you rush to conclusions.
Good Luck!! And remember at least he is asking you and not someone else!
2007-02-09 14:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a fly by night thing & you are just filling in time until he either finds someone else or moves on.
OR
He is probably really shy & in that case next time your out on a date why dont you just ask him in a round about way?
2007-02-09 14:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by gianluca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to be careful with this guy. He's not being honest with you right from the start and that's not a very good sign. It doesn't sound like you know too much about him. I wouldn't get too serious with this one....!!
2007-02-09 14:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by FriendlyFriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably saving his minutes for his through the week girl. Don't waste your time.
2007-02-10 04:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not an american he probably doesn't know amercian dating customs...so why not tell him...write out a list and give it to him, leave it on his desk, whatever....he needs to be taught.
2007-02-09 14:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask HIM what's up? Instead of asking total strangers who don't know him?
2007-02-09 15:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by chocolatecupcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋