I met a guy thru a blind date 2 months ago.
He and I had talked on the phone/emailed for a month before meeting.
We got together on short notice because of crazy work schedules.
I was dressed casually and so was he.
We had a good time I thought and even ended up making out.
Well he disappeared on me and acted very distant afterwards so I finally gave up. I was a bit sad that he didnt even want to be friends at least. I ve never had nayone turn me down as a friend. Its a depressing feeling. Well I have been losing weight and also had breast reduction surgery over the last two months.
I went from size 12 to size 4 and look younger, healthier and better overall.
I just put a new personal ad and who winked at me but the blind date guy. He also emailed me that Im looking great and where have I been. And said we should have lunch soon.
He is so full of it . Im on Windows Messenger all the time and so is he. He has been ignoring me and no is trying to pretend I disappeared.
2007-02-09 13:51:52 · 21 answers · asked by merryme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I bother responding to him at all ?
Im so annoyed to realise that he is so shallow that he didnt want to date me when I was heavier.
2007-02-09 13:52:49 · update #1
Congratulations on the new you. it's always healthy and empowering to do things for yourself. Other than sending him an email and pic of how hot you look now, don't waste another minute of your time on that schmoe. You will find somebody to love and appreciate you for who you are.
2007-02-09 13:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really, really low of him, pretending like you'd disappeared when it was him that disappeared - after making out even. He doesn't deserve any contact. Ignore him. Give him a taste of his own medicine! And congratulations on the weight loss! Whether size 12 or 4, you're lovely!
2007-02-09 13:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Big & Useful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about this guy he is only abut beauty that is skin deep. Find a decent guy who will like you for who you are now and when you were bigger. It's sad to see that there are people out there that are so shallow that they won't even be your friend. All the best on the man hunt and congrats for losing the weight.
2007-02-09 13:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by gundychick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer him, he does not worth it. I admit most of us are guided by physics for choosing someone as a couple but you're right to say he could of been friends with you but he was so shallow that he did not want you as a friend because you were heavy.
Don't reply him, actually you should erase him from your messenger, he does not deserve you even as a friend. Ignoring you, this shows how shallow and jerk he is.
2007-02-09 13:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is shallow simple as that if he didn't like you at a size 12 he shouldnt date you at a size 4. Size and shape may change but personality never does try finding a dude who will like you no matter what.
2007-02-09 13:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is very important to a guy (and probably to you, too). Maybe it's shallow, but that's the way it is. Chances are, many of the guys you meet that like you now wouldn't have been as receptive when you were heavier.
2007-02-09 13:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be honest with you.
He only wants to get in your pants. I am a girl; been there done that.
Come on girl, you can do better than this. Ignore him.
You deserve a man who truly cares about you whether you are thick or thin.
:)
Good job on the weight loss!!! That's awesome.
2007-02-09 13:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by limited_edition78 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! You can do so much better I'm sure! He seems like a shallow guy...stay clear of them and find yourself a nice man. Looks really shouldn't matter but unfortunately they do... Good Luck!!
2007-02-09 13:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wowwww. you know what i would do? I would lead his *** on and then drop him and tell him exactly how I felt. That'll teach his shallow *** a lesson. I don't know why some guys think women are dumb? Arrgghhhh they get on my nerves sometimes. Not all guys of course. THANK GOD
2007-02-09 13:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not even give him the time of day. He needs to learn his lesson, don't you think? Go find a really sexy, gorgeous man and rub it in his face! Payback is sweet, take care : )
2007-02-09 16:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋