My bf doesn't know the difference between being controlled (***** whiped) and being nice to his girlfriend. ((((example: we were at a party & I wanted him to come home w/ me cuz we hadn't seen much of eachother, but he wanted to spend the night... He thought I was trying to control him )))) I put up with alot of ****, and he is so far from being "whiped" it's not even funny. He basically puts his truck, snowmobile and buddies over me, and I don't complain. He knows that sometimes I get irritated by it, but it's never because I ***** about it. I keep my mouth shut, and let him do what he wants... We only see eachother a few times a week, and he seems okay with that, but I want to be with him more... I don't want to break up with him because I love him... he just needs to get his priorities straight... do you agree?? I need outside oppinions.
2007-02-09 13:33:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like me when I was younger. My best advise is give him the room he needs or lose him. If things are meant to be he'll outgrow it sooner or later(later believe me) and you'll end up with someone that realizes what he has and what he almost lost.
2007-02-09 13:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Stuka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with him. Does he understand what you have just told us? Do you think he knows that you just love him alot and like to be around him and are NOT trying to control him? Have you ever sat down and talked with him in a nice way (not fighting) and just explain this too him? He may not be used to giving someone who loves him his time. It may take him a while. If you try not to nag him and gently let him know how you feel honestly (a few little tears won't hurt either) then maybe he will see the light. If he doesn't' and won't, then at some point you may decide he is not the right guy for you. And then, he will only have himself to blame when you leave.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 21:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
p*ssy whipped!
anyway, why not just ask him to spend more time with you? if he doesn't, find something that you like to do and go out and do it.
you say you only see him a few times a week? is that only when he wants to see you, or to have sex?
it would seem that if that's the case then he is not the one being p*ssy whipped here ---you are.
2007-02-09 21:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a spine and stand up for yourself! Why the h#ll are you letting him put everyone and their dog first, before you? Are you so pitifully desperate for affection that you're willing to accept whatever scraps he throws you like a dog begging scraps from a table?
He's taking advantage of you, silly girl! He's using you for his convenience, like you were some inflatable doll from the porn store without really caring about your needs and your feelings.
You're letting him so I guess you deserve it.
2007-02-09 21:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery Woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two have a problem and it's not going to get any better. When somebody starts saying you are pussy whipping them it's manipulation to try to make you feel guilty and give into what they want. Actually, it's them trying to control you.
2007-02-09 21:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dose have his priorities straight and your on the bottom of the list.
2007-02-09 21:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared about you he wouldn't do that kind of stuff, just tell him straight up if he doesn't get his act together ur leaving because honestly I'm sure you can do better than that
2007-02-09 21:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he has a girl friend and he is your boyfriend???
makes no sence
2007-02-09 21:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by JOSHY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋