So, here's the deal. I want to surprise one of my best friends on Valentine's Day next week. I thought I'd go to her place in the middle of the night and leave a rose and a note on her car. Thing is, I've been crazy in love with this girl for like eight years. She's always thought of me as a friend, however. Of course, right?
Well, I thought about sending the rose and note and not signing my name.
If she sees my name, I'm sure she'll be happy, but she also might think "oh, he's at it again, why can't he just get the picture."
I really just want this surprise to be about her. I just want to make her feel special that day. I just want to make sure she gets a flower. I don't know. What do you guys think?
Sign or don't sign?
2007-02-09 13:17:45 · 16 answers · asked by YeahThatsRight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think she is going to say, "Oh, he's at it again, why can't he just get the picture" that's probably a good sign not to do it at all.
If a girl can't see that you're a catch, she isn't either.
2007-02-09 13:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM IMPRESSED BY YOUR 8 YEARS OF LOVE FOR HER. IT HAS BEEN ALREADY 8 YEARS AND YOU SHOULD HAVE GIVEN HER MANY VALENTINES DAY PRESENTS. SO CAN I SAY THAT SHE ALREADY KNOWS YOU LIKE HER AND THAT SHE HAS SORT OF REJECTED YOUR PROPOSAL? IF THAT IS THE CASE, SIGN IT AND GIVE IT TO HER PERSONALLY AND NOT LEAVE IT AT HER HOUSE. THAT WILL TRULLY SURPRISE HER I SUPPOSE. DO NOT BE WORRIED ABOUT THIS "oh, he's at it again, why can't he just get the picture." YOU CAN BACK UP THAT I CAN'T GET THE PICTURE AS I STILL LIKE YOU. MAYBE THIS WILL BE THE YEAR WHEN MIRACLES HAPPEN TO YOU AND SHE MAY FEEL TOUCH BY YOUR ACTIONS FOR A LONG 8 YEARS AND DECIDES TO ACCEPT YOU =) GOD BLESS YOU=)
2007-02-09 13:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by robvin_tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is, if she is just a friend, and has been just a friend for a certain amount of time, chances are she just isnt feeling the spark. Yes she will appreciate the gesture, but the bottom line is, its sort of a waste of money, chances are nothing will change, except the fact that you might get to hear her say "Ah thats so sweet" The truth hurts my brother, but if you wanna do it its still a very nice gesture. seriously. But if your going to do it, by all means sign.
2007-02-09 13:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign it. Maybe she wants to be pursued by you. If it doesn't work out then at least you know. I'm sure there are a ton of girls who would be thrilled to have you slipping a rose and note on their car. Good luck.
2007-02-09 13:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign of course! After 8 years I say go for it! :) ♥
2007-02-09 13:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sign but leave a clue that its you so its still special and another guy might take the creadit if you don't!!
2007-02-09 13:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say sign, sending flowers is a cute idea but the girl will get super annoyed when she has no idea who sent them.
2007-02-09 13:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Leannedrufy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 21:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign it
2007-02-09 13:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by lovebug512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not signing is really cute. however, if you want her to know its from you, i would sign my name. or you could put a flower on her car, not signing, and then one in her locker that is signed. i don't know. it just depends what you want.
2007-02-09 13:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋