2007-02-09 13:09:51 · 28 answers · asked by candi c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That means that you feel comfortable in the relationship and you are afraid of letting go of it. You want something better, but you are afraid that you might end up worse off than you are now.
2007-02-09 13:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by cy ko tic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
harsh answers out there wow..
well. love grows.. you cant just say.. aww i dont love you.. if you dont you cant help that.. doesnt mean anything..
Maybe someday you will love him, its not something you HAVE to do to want to be with someone.. its just more of a WANT and not a NEED.. im learning the love part myself..i dont understand why people can fall inlove get married, and 20 years later fall out of love and marry what they claim to be the love of their life.. its confusing.. But then again.. there are billllions of people... i dont feel theres just only 1 person for 1 person.. think about it.. it would be nice.. i jsut like to sit back sometimes and watch people, and watch their actions....and thats where i come up with my analogy. to others- its wrong.. but i dont care what other people think. i wanst put here to control my thoughts on what other people say....
so maybe you like him alot... and you just dont love him.. yet.
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Jamie
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2007-02-09 21:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by ~Jamie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just your current feelings and it will pass with age. You'll probably feel the same way for a few more years with different guys you like but don't want to go steady with and then your Prince Charming will come along. Have fun
2007-02-09 21:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it..... you tell me? But i think, perhaps you enjoy being dependent and there is nothing wrong with that as long as you don't do it all your life. And wellll as long as you are happy. And as long as your partner is too. Think about if you are using him and or leading him on for the sake of you comfort -- not even you happiness. If that is the case, i recommend you correct yourslef. But if what you are doing IS making you happy.... and you holding on to him even if you dont love him, IS making him happy too.... well who's to doubt/say there can't be love in the future and or mutual agreement to move on separate ways? No one, but you and him.
2007-02-09 21:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't want to be lonely. I've gone though this before. I didn't love my ex but I didn't want to be without him but that was only because I didn't want to be lonely but I know I couldn't keep dating him because it wasn't fair for him since he had more feelings for me then I did for him. We were going to get married but I couldn't marry someone I didn't love so I called it off and we broke up and I went my own way and for awhile it was hard to be on my own but I did it and I was glad I did. You need to let him go if you don't love him.
2007-02-09 21:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're the type of girl that makes men nuts. I've had a few friends with girls like you. Take it from me, you're detestable. Let the dude go about his life, he doesn't need you messing around with his emotional compass.
2007-02-09 21:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is never easy.. You need to let him go and if you dont want to let him go, you can always keep him as a "friend" until you are ready to completely let go. (so long as he understands that its no longer a romance between you) Good Luck!!
2007-02-09 21:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by cakcynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably means your a little needy, and you'd rather be in a bad relationship than be on your own.
2007-02-09 21:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you love him as a friend. Just be friends with him then you wont be without him.
2007-02-09 21:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have feelings for him as a good or best friend just are not ready for it to be a boyfriend girlfriend relationship yet.
2007-02-09 21:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by valerie h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋