I called this guy tonight to say I had the evening free and could go out, but he needed to get a buddy to drive him into town (he doesn't have his license right now). He said he'd call me back. I never heard from him and so I decided to have a movie night at home. 2 1/2 hours later he calls me (I didn't answer because I was enjoying my movie and popcorn.) He leaves a message that he is almost in town! I am not planning on letting him in because I feel that he was taking me for granted.. expecting me to wait at home with my free evening. I now have other plans and don't plan on catering to his making me wait 2 1/2 hours for news of if he can make it or not. Is this rude of me?
2007-02-09 13:09:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you ask me he was the rude one. What did he expect? You to waste most of your free evening waiting for him to call or show up? What if he couldn't have gotten a ride? Would he have bothered to call you at all? If you let him in it's like saying it's alright to treat you like this. I'm with on your plan to turn him away.
2007-02-09 13:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you did was the right thing.he dint have the decency to tell you that he was trying to plan out or that he was making arrangements. he just cant pop up outta the blue and expect you to be waiting on him.just continue doing what you were and let him know that you've already made other plans and that he is free to join in.
2007-02-09 21:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him in , he said he would call if he could get a ride over and he did , yes you are rude , maybe it took him awhile to arrange a ride
2007-02-09 21:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Peter M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you rude and stupid did you tell him he had a time limit awnd if he had to get a ride you should have been more understanding a nd waiting on him
2007-02-09 21:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda but you had to do what you wanted to do cause you cant just wait on him alnight but i would have answered the fone
2007-02-09 21:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not at all rude of you, its rude of him. stand up for yourself and don't let him take advantage of you.....be confident!
2007-02-09 21:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Leannedrufy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it's totally rude of u...
2007-02-09 21:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by emo_chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way you shouldn't wait on a guys schedule. he should have called you to tell you wat was happening not waiting for the last minuet.thats just major bs..
2007-02-09 21:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by xosoccerbabexo_47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not rude at all. He was rude.
2007-02-09 21:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Pleie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right
2007-02-09 21:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋