ok. I just broke up with my bf and we went out for a year.he dropped out of school and also cheated on me.he writes me everyday saying he wants to be with me til the day he passes.but i love him.and there is a boy at my school that i like alot and he likes me alot to and we talked about going out for a while should i be with him or the person i love?
2007-02-09 13:01:59 · 21 answers · asked by celinda o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you gonna stay with the one who Loves you or are you going back to one you Love? Someone's gonna cry when they know they've lost you. Someone's gonna thank the Star's Above!
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2007-02-09 13:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOVE WHAT??? A drop out with no future who cheated on you and shows nothing but disrespect and no self control. Not to mention a lack of maturity. Stop saying love---you have NO idea what love is made of--he shows no integrity, dignity, respect, caring, support or anything else connected with the word love. Writing???He can write-???--whoa, I am surprised--- write him off and set your sights on a nice youngf man that shows you some maturity and is fun to be with. Are you in school??? Better worry about that first--your future depends on it. Dating should be fun but done nice and slow--learn how to date a guy and keep it light--no need for sex or stupid stuff---unless you want a disease or a baby--and a ruined life. Happy Valentines Day and good luck--smile too
2007-02-09 21:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this even really a hard decision for you? Your ex cheated on you and dropped out of school. That doesn't sound like it is going to make for a promising future for either of you. It isn't easy to give up on a man you love but to wait around to be hurt isn't a very smart idea either. Give the other guy a try. It has the potential to be a much better relationship for you.
2007-02-09 21:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To cheat on someone says I do not love you. However people can change but more often than not they do not. If you love him you can forgive but remember forgiving and forgeting is 2 different things. Once someone cheats there is a betrayel that will always sit inside of you. Now if the other choice looks like he might be a good catch then by all means give him a shot, but dont string the other one around because it will only do more harm than good.
2007-02-09 21:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by mckinlyjoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go out with the boyfriend who cheated on you and is a drop out. Is that what you wanted to hear? I am sure the two of you will have three or four years of happiness in the trailer park. Along with three kids. Whatever you do, don't follow your good senses, follow your heart, and say hello to the other trailer trash folks for me.....
2007-02-09 21:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by mycatsdead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date till your hearts content with anybody you want even your x.Keep in mind he was your friend once as well.Don't practice throwing away friends,cause one day you might need them.Be honest and happy in your relationships,tell your Bf's what you want out of life and let things happen slowly.Good things come to those who wait for the right person,but you will probably have go through several to get to the good ones.Life is a long journey,take it easy on your friends and yourself,and remember,being Happy is your job.Good Luck and be Sweet................
2007-02-09 21:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on Sweetie, don't look back. Soon the two of you will have nothing in common. He dropped out and you have a bright future ahead of you. You broke up with him for good reason. If he cheated once he'll do it again.
2007-02-09 21:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i would say be with the one you love but you have to look at it this way.... he just dropped out of school.. how will he provide for you in the long run.. and besides your young there is so much out there for you to learn. i once too was in love at a young age...and now i am married to some one else that i love now..
2007-02-09 21:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by naterie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude... that guy who cheated on you does not love you. You are probably in love with the "idea" of who you want him to be. I've had a lot of friends who've had their husbands cheat on them, trust me, it never works out! You should give the other guy a chance.
2007-02-09 21:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my opinion whoever cheats on anyone is not someone you want to go out with. He did it then and he'll, chances are, do it again. Besides i think its more of a puppy love than an actual love
2007-02-09 21:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋