okay so my ex-boyfrined dumped me 4 some other girl..and i know i should hate him right now but i find myself coming back to liking him..i dont know what to do..sometimes i think he is the biggest jerk alive and sometimes i miss the heck out of him..he has a girl friend right now but i still miss him a lot..wat should i do to get over him?
2007-02-09 12:57:55 · 16 answers · asked by chump 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sounds so familiar- my EX broke it off with me(not sure if there is another girl or not)- to tell you the truth- i asked the same question & everyone always said give it time & you will heal... i got sick or people saying that coz one min i would be ok then the next i would break down & miss him more then anything- it ended 2 months ago- so its still pretty fresh- i still talk to him (he is the one that calls me all the time). - everyone will tell you its his lose & he doesnt deserve you -but you cant help but still care!!!
then one day i woke up & realised that life can move on even though it may be so hard now, you do get over it- i mean, i dnt think i would eva get over him 100% because we did go out for 5 years but it has been so much easier this last month then i ever thought!!! everything happens for a reason & obviously there is something better for you-
it made it so much easier because i was so angry with him - & i thought way am i giving him the satisfaction of doing this to me when he ended it-
no one can tell you what to do but just remember no matter how long you are feeling lik this YOU WILL GET OVER IT!!!
2007-02-09 13:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lozza J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say thins, but your problem is not your ex bf it's you (at least partially). IF you had even a tiny bit of self confidence and loved yourself even a little bit, I think you would realize how sill you are being. You don't need top hate him or anyone, but you need to realize that you are more important than anyone. PLEASE don't let others dictate how you must feel. Its time for you to move on. He has left you for another girl...if you gave him your best, then it was not meant to be. Move on and be stronger for it. You can still have good memories of the times you had together, but REMEMBER...he left you...not the other way around. Don't worry some great guy will come around when you a re least expecting it and this time if you respect and like yourself you will recognize the right person!
2007-02-09 13:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I thought my life was messed up. Sorry, that kind of sounded mean, I guess what you really need to do is just get yourself away from these people because they seem to be stressing you out. Your boyfriend is obviously kind of violent if he hit him with his truck and what his stepdad did shouldn't worry you since now he's in jail. As for your best friend, you should try talking to her and telling her to tell the truth but if she doesn't want to then that's her decision if she wants to go to jail. You should just try to be there for your boyfriend while he's in the hospital and then once he's better try and talk to him and figure out if it's worth staying together when he's causing you just as much stress and pain and stuff as your ex boyfriend; or maybe not, I'm not really sure of the whole situation. But yeah, just talk to someone.
2016-05-24 19:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to take this time to be good to yourself. You need to keep busy and do things for you! Your ex-boyfriend has obviously moved on and I know it hurts and that you miss him. Being busy is the best thing that will help you and tell yourself that it's his loss! One day he'll realize that he lost the best thing that ever happened to him! Keep your head held high and move on girl! I guarantee that someone better will come your way when you're least expecting it!
2007-02-09 13:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about my ex-boyfreind. I mean he was a real asshole, but everyday I miss him alot. The only thing I can tell you is that leave him be and try to move on. It's okay that you miss him but don't worry about him cause he ain't worth it because he has already moved on so you need to do the same
2007-02-09 13:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard but you need to move on. Start looking for a new one. Time heals all wounds. I know being inbetween relationships sucks. Try to find something to take your mind off of him. Whatever that could possibly be. You need a major distraction. Good luck.
2007-02-09 13:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to not be around him , not see him. you need to take the apropiate time for yourself to heal and you never will if you are still around him. you have to realize that you deserve better. and by you still liking him after what he has done to you, you are condoning being treated that way and chances of someone else doing you that way will be good. do youself a big favor and move on...best of luck to oyu.
2007-02-09 13:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over him is to have someone to be there for u and let u know that u're better off without him and u deserve better...cuz trust me once he cheat on u so much he is goin to advantage of u cuz that how people are and once ur married to him he will alwaise does the same thing over and over cuz he knows that u wont leave him...and having a talk about with ur parent is good bc they know and they experience more...and u should go out oftenly bc it help u to get over him and have fun without him cuz trust me if have fun without him u could live without him...bc u know that u dont need him..
2007-02-09 13:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by pheng l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough, and sadly ive been throught the same thing.
What i did was just cut him out of my life if he dumped you for another girl then he really isnt worth if he cant see what a great girl you are..
2007-02-09 13:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by lozzy_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get
over a guy
is to get
under another
2007-02-09 13:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by I-Like-Chicha&Ceviche 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋