is it worth it to relocate to a different state (from Jersey) if u want to get away from ur family? is that a good reason to go to another place and find a job and make a living?
2007-02-09 12:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i'm in my 20s have a college degree. haven't ever lived on my own before. considering relocating cuz i wanna be on my own and live away from family b/c they are annoying. yes i'm seeking excitement and a new job if i can find one. i hate driving, need to move somewhere that doesn't require a car!
2007-02-09 13:05:42 · update #1
If you are legal are and you feel your family is dragging you down then you certainly should consider putting some distance between you.......my bf had a very damaging mother and picked up and moved 3000 miles (kind of over kill!!) to have a chance at a sane life and it worked out very good, she had some rough times but overall she gained self esteem, street smarts, and now she actually lives about 45 mins. from the mother and everything is good because of the strength she gained by being completely on her own. Good luck to you!!
2007-02-09 13:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18+ years of age, you can relocate for any reason that you see fit. If you don't like your family, are there not some friends that you would miss if you move?
Most people who move out-of-state seek excitement, or a better job, or a college degree. You can stay away from your family even if you live just one town away from them. You can probably also make a good living in New Jersey.
No, just leaving the state due to not liking your family is not a good reason. It would be different if something awaited you in the new state. It would also be different if you were moving with a friend (s).
Good luck, no matter what you decide.
2007-02-09 21:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't need to agree with everybody but just understand them. If you don't get along with them you can try to respect their point of view at least. A hard can't it be! And good or bad they are your family and if you'll need help they'll probably be there for you.
2007-02-09 21:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Virtua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It is not a wise decision. What you could do is pay attention to your life instead of paying attention to what your family is doing and saying.
2007-02-09 20:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by PC VS Mac 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes it can be as long as u r not running from problems
2007-02-09 21:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no please dont do tht i no someone who did and now they no it was a huge mistake we found them and told them we'd take them to our house but they were like,"no, please take me home i miss my family" when we got to their house they were hugging their kids and crying, their kids were crying to ,it was an awful tradgety
2007-02-09 21:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by sarathefashiongirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure
i guess, but think about more and more and more.....
2007-02-09 21:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by dolphins1817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋