so... me and this guy have been dating on and off for 3 months. then he said he didnt really think it was working. so i started talking to other guys. then i met his best friend. we started talking online a little bit. then he started calling me. he started more and more. and last week we talked on the phone 18 hours in all. But when my ex boyfriend hear he got really jealous and mad and now he wants me back. but i dont know who i like more! what should i do?
ex boyfriend:
hippy-ish, plays guitar,active in church, very outgoing, leader, sometimes acts bi polar, can be sweet and romantic, very unique and different, he compliments some, and teases ALOT.
his best friend:
veryy talkative, also plays guitar, likes to perfrom in front of people, active in church [ his father is a minister], compliments alottttttt, easy to talk to, sometimes a little annoying/ obsessive, an individual.
2007-02-09 12:48:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably broke up with you expecting you to be sad about it, and beg him to come back.. clearly doesnt sound like he got his way.. so you start talking to his friend.. he gets jealous... and thats probably all it is.. jealousy.. it would be odd hanging out with his best friend and you......think about the same situation. you broke up with him, and he went for your best friend...... wouldnt you say to yourself " well what was wrong with me? " and maybe he is in doubt.. Alot of guys end a realtionship cause its going to quick for them and they get scared... of commitment and are unsure..
thats probably what it is.
continue to be friends with both of them with no intentions on dating them.. just to see whos really in for the kill
2007-02-09 12:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jamie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When looking for love, you need to look for the person on the inside, not the person on the outside. In this world today we focus too much on physical appearance. Bill from accounting with the old glasses might be your prince charming if you can get past the shallow tendency to look only at physical appearance. We girls like to have it all, and well, guys aren't that good at giving it to us, but they mean well, and they try so hard.
Well, the question is if you love them both.
boys compliments girls a lot when they are in the courting period, and then when you too are couple, you'll realize sometihng has changed. maybe you should really look at them both in the inside. who is more good and honest and most important who respects you.
Get to know him. Sometimes we become enamored with a fantasy that the guy can fit into, more than the real person himself.
try to think of a reason:
---why your boyfriend wants you back?
---why your friend (his bestfriend) act like that to you?
---whoI really attracted the most?
---Am i ready for thid realtionship?
just try to think first before entering to any realtionship..
2007-02-09 13:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by nk_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered a plan C? None of the above? It seems to me your into what these boys do rather than who they really are inside. Now would you have the same intrest in a working man thats more of a home body and less of a social animal... would he just bore you to tears? if the answer is yes then your doomed for a while going from man to man just for the thrills.
2007-02-09 12:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a true story, which unfortunaley, has happened a few times. I have introduced the girl I like/girlfriend to my best friend a few times. However, my best friend always ends up liking here, and my girlfriend falls for him. My answer: this is definatly not easy for your ex boyfriend. Keep that in mind, then make the right decision. I hope it helps...
2007-02-09 12:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kay0s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I tell you what if it will be a long term relationship your looking for thenm the ex is no longer an option. Jealousy is not love and will never be love just a heart break waiting to happen.
2007-02-09 12:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by mckinlyjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt get back with yoru ex because as soon as he notices that your done with his friend, he might just leave you all over again. i think this new guy sounds pretty cute and he seems to haev a nice personaltiy. even if he is a little annoying. maybe someday you'll begin to think thats its just cute
2007-02-09 12:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second one will be more suitable to you as you have open your heart with him & talked a lot with him. Past is past don't think of him otherwise you will be in trouble in establishing your affection with any one. Be sincere in your relations with one.
2007-02-09 13:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go back with your ex..he only wants you because now someone else does..Once he gets you again and his friend isnt interested anymore then he will drop you again.
2007-02-09 12:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont be with both of them and see which one is the one u miss the most bc feeling will alwaise be the answer for ur relationship
2007-02-09 12:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by pheng l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋