Should I tell her or just let her find out...?

Question

Soooooo.. I havent had sex in like 4+ years. Therefore when I do have sex again, it is not going to last very long lol... I am starting a relationship now... Should I mention this sometime before we have sex for the first time or just shoot the load and exlpain after?

Anyway... I know after a few rounds I should be back into full swing. Any suggestion on perhaps going down or something to get her off as well before or after I get off a little quickly lol... Is that a good idea?

Answer 1

Tell her.. it will make her feel specail. And it will let her know that your not sleeping around and will it also give her the impression that you are serious with her.. dont make a dinner date out of it or anything, but if the topic comes up.. then thats the right time.... ;)

Answer 2

so you have not had sex in for years, but you must have been jerkin the gerkin? your hands weren't broke right? and if for some reason you don't pull the head then you should start, you'll build endurance, and then when the night comes that you think your going to do it, just pull it a couple times that day before you see her and you'll be just fine, so keep it hi and hard and good luck!!

Answer 3

i think that maybe you should just let her find out because if your say, " hey i havent had sex in a while so its gonna be short." doesnt exactly sound pleasant to hear

Answer 4

well even tho you haven't had sex in so long that doesn't mean you have to be wham bam thank ya mam kind of lover.but anyway,i'd talk about it first

Answer 5

Explain first.

Answer 6

if you tell her before she will not be disappointed.and maybe you'll will have sex more than once that night.and you'll both can enjoy it.

Answer 7

make sure she gets off first then it won't matter.

Answer 8

you should say something, it might be better

Answer 9

i say tell her!