Does anyone else think it's gross? How can you feed a baby and then have your husband touch them or put his mouth on them? Does anyone else feel this way? How do you seperate the difference between them as sexual objects and then a source of nourishment for a baby?
2007-02-09 12:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You can look at it religiously or with evolution...they're made to feed your baby.
Men like them, but that's not their purpose.
2007-02-09 12:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Me 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you read deeper into some of the books you get about breastfeeding you will find that while breastfeeding your baby you may feel a sexual satisfaction in this process. It is perfectly normal.
That being said, try to understand that that your nipples are very sexual and that they are both there for that of feeding a baby and for the pleasure of your husband. At the same time they are simply there. But, i am able to separate any difference when feeding the baby by acknowledging their existence and their capabilities as well as what they are being used for when feeding the baby. If you can ACKNOWLEDGE them as a feeding tool then i don't understand what the problem would be. If you are unable to do this then i suggest you get some help by seeing a doctor because this could cause some other serious problems later with your child.
2007-02-09 12:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Breastfeeding is NOT gross.
If you cant differentiate between breasts as sexual and nourishment then you aint ready to have kids.
I breastfed both my children and never had any problems with any peverse thinking.
My Bf didnt touch my breasts whilst I was breastfeeding as they were for the baby not him. Plus it was uncomfortable to go from feeding a baby to having someone grope you.
The diffrence between sexual and nourishment is this:
A baby suckles at a womens breast as its only source of food.
A man will grope or whateer a womens breast as a means of sexual gratification.
They dont even compare.
If you cant see the difference in that then you are really dense.
And need to think about something else. And please dont have kids as you probably think pushing a baby out your vagina is sexual as well.
2007-02-09 20:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you asking this because you are breasfeeding or because you are against breastfeeding?
If you are nursing, and you are wondering how to deal with it; just don't think about it. When you're nursing the baby you're probably not thinking how sexy it feels. When you're having sex, think about what your husband is doing and how it feels, not about the baby nursing. Pretty simple. If it really bothers you when your husband is touching your breasts, there are plenty of other things you can do in bed until you are done nursing.
2007-02-13 01:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by mq1229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think its gross, cause for many women its a stimulation when having sex, but when it comes to after having the baby and breastfeeding most women dont get the same sensation from the baby sucking on the breast.
2007-02-09 12:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey, think of it this way.
Your vagina is a place of pleasure and pain.
It gives you ecstasy and you're baby plops right out of there...
Your husband touching your breasts can turn you on and they nourish your child....
How can you put another object from another person into your vagina that gives your baby life?
2007-02-09 12:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rossy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just think it's really sad that breasts are so sexualized and made to be almost "dirty" for any other use--even their naturally intended one.
Being grossed out by breastfeeding is almost a sexual perversion in your own mind that you have been tainted with by society.
Because it's not so much the trouble with the men who see them as play things, and unfortunately this male dominated mindset has infected women and culture in general--(obnoxious, ugly, big breast implants for all),
But it's that you are afraid your baby will somehow make you sexually aroused.--It's really sad.
It's all nonsense. You do separate it, Because they are NOT men's play things in actuality, they are the baby's food!
2007-02-09 12:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well they were made for feeding before they became sexual things.
Breastfeeding is the best way to feed an infant and the natural way as our bodies were intended for.
I think people who can not differentiate between them as what their real purpose is for and them being used sexually must be immature.
2007-02-09 12:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
omg... good question..
now you got me thinking..
damn..
2007-02-09 12:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by mommy.luv.jordyn 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋