Will apologizing make things worse or better?

Question

Theres this girl i like(lets call her (S) in this)I know her really well cause we're family friends and i known her since kindergarden. I started liking her at Gr5 but kept it inside me the whole time, a few months ago 2 of my friends found out and eventually it spread to more ppl but then one person announced it to everyone in class, so i was like whatever and confessed to (S). Now she likes another guy who doesnt like her, and ignores me and avoids me like we dont know each other. I asked my friend who is also (S)'s best friend about apologizing and she says it will make things worse and i should just wait it out and something will eventually have to happen. Even if (S) doesnt like me I dont really care right now because its proboaly too early to be obsesed with love yet (We're in Gr.8)but i want here to just stop treating me like she doesnt know me
Will apologizing make everything worse or better
and will sending her a valentine gift do anything, just something small like a flower

Answer 1

You don't need to apologize because you haven't done anything wrong. Having feelings for someone and being honest about it is a mature and very sweet thing. She is probably intimidated by the situation and doesn't know how to handle it. At your age everyone is going through the whole "relationship" thing for the first time and you will all make a lot of mistakes for a while... that is okay, it's all a learning experience. Buy her a gift if you want to, but don't worry, everything will work itself out. In the mean time go have fun with your friend and just forget about this situation.
You sound like a sweet guy with a wonderful heart, don't ever change that :)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I think you should apologize to her because girls appreciate it if
guys apologize and its most likely she'll forgive you.............. Apologize to her where theres not too many people around. Tell her how you've known her for such a long time and that you don't want your friendship with her to get messed up. I think apologizing will make it better. And if she is dating another guy then I don't think a Valentines gift is good....... If shes not going out with someone then you should give her a gift like flowers.

Answer 4

ok.you guys are in eightth grade!!dont take it too personally if a girl doesnt lyk you.im sorry if thats harsh but seriously. youve got time to find someone who will pay attention to you.if her bff says apologizing will make things worse then shes probably.i mean she IS (s)'s best friend.who knows a girl better than her bff?just take her friends advice and wait until something happens.if nothing does then try and find someone else. dont dwell on it.good luck and i hope all goes well.

Answer 5

I wouldn't send a gift, but I would talk to her. Just tell her you don't care if she doesn't like you, but you miss being friends and to let you know when she's ready to be friends again. And be very casual with her from then on, the way you used to be. I imagine she misses you, too.

Answer 6

Apologizing will make it better provided you can get a chance to do it alone, this way you can explain to her how you feel. somebody could have made something up and told her and thats why she ain't talking to you.

Answer 7

Dude apolgize to her tell her that you never meant for that to come between the two or yall and to see if she can find a way to forgive you for that so your friendship can continue