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I am very shy and it seems like no boys like me at all. I have never had a boyfriend and I am 14. Could anyone tell me if I will ever come out of my shyness and be more outgoing? Could anyone tell me if you were shy too and how your life turned out? Thank you to all that answers.

2007-02-09 12:13:59 · 29 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I am 39 and I was very shy as a kid( and I still kind of am). Yes, as you get older you come out of your shell more and it just gets easier. Sometimes you just have to kinda of force yourself to talk to people and put yourself in situations that would normally make you feel uncomfortable. As you get older, people get much nicer too and that helps to get over the shyness.

2007-02-09 12:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi!! I am a very shy person. When I was 14 I didn't have a boyfriend either. At 15 I had my first boyfriend. Don't worry things will turn out great. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you aren't pretty. Just think about it, what if there are some guys that like you and they are shy too. Give it some time! Good luck!!

2007-02-09 12:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, I used to be shy, all the way up to age 17. For some reason, I just stopped caring about what others thought of me. I started interacting at parties, talking to people and making jokes. I remember thinking one time, that someone may not like the way I'm talking/acting. Then I thought again...screw them. Who are they to judge. There is one one time I will be judged and it sure ain't going to be here on Earth!!! So forget about being shy and get out there and make a fool of yourself. You'll be amazed at the outcome.

2007-02-09 12:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by khartman492000 4 · 0 0

well, im a guy, and i was really shy too. I had a couple friends and i hung out with them and got into sports and stuff and met lots of people thru them. There is nothing wrong with being a hanger on or a follower, just dont let it lead you down the wrong road, before too long you'll get in shape and get some selfesteem and start pulling your weight, to mix some metaphors and stuff.

2007-02-09 12:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0 0

Oh mi goodness i am so shy also. I can't talk to a boy with out stuttering getting red or things like that. Just be yourself in frount of them hey i have about 23 guy friends it works!!! Try it!!

2007-02-09 12:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm attracted to shy girls so I don't know what the problem is. If you need to be more outgoing then find a conversation around you that you know about and jump in. Generally people won't care.

2007-02-09 12:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Blake H 1 · 0 0

lol I am 13 and I had never had a bf either cuz I am tooo shy. But Now I am becomin more outgoin. Just try talking to boys more even if u seem shy and u dont like them and that wil help u cuz u can talk to boys more easily. If u need to bring a friend to help u out if u cant open ur mouth, that helped me alot! ♥

2007-02-09 12:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by if only he knew 2 · 0 0

At the age of 14, you haven't seen anything yet. You still have around 6 times your current like ahead of you, and you shouldn't worry about it! If you don't have a boyfriend, it's perfectly fine. In fact, it's perfectly fine not to ever have a boyfriend even if you're 60- it's your choice! If you want to have a boyfriend, it'll work for you. If you don't, it's fine. Just go with it, and trust me- you'll be coming out of your shell in highschool.

2007-02-09 12:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well....
i used to be super shy, and i am also 14 and guess what??? I HAVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND EITHER! sometimes i wish that i did have one, but i know something will happen when the time is right. dont worry about it..your time will come. but until then, be yourself, join clubs to get to know other people, try to be more outgoing and flirty. hopefully these will help....
p.s. ( after i made it on the cheer team, it has made me so much more outgoing!) good luck!!!! i hope everything works out for you and me!! =]

2007-02-09 12:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by lalalaa123 2 · 0 0

im an outgoing person theres nothing really to shy about just stop caring what ppl think cuz your cant prevent it ne way. if you stay shy your gonna have a horrible highschool life by not going to parties out of school and stuff and meeting new ppl.

2007-02-09 12:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Doss 2 · 0 0

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