what would you do if your date asks you this... not in any interests way... just talking about getting a job and wanting to know how much I could make... so without wanting I asked how much he made... he wasn't mad, or unconfortable, I am still not sure if he lied... he said $600 a month... he only works on weekends...
my question is... would you care? would you lie? would you get mad? please tell me your opinions
2007-02-09 12:01:50 · 10 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been asked that before. I didn't give it a second thought. I just told her flat-out, not thinking it was more than just a question of curiousity.
I guess I would only life if I KNEW she were asking the question as a means of deciding whether or not the conversation will continue past the subject. Oh, and I would also lie if, maybe, I had just lost my job.
2007-02-09 12:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run if a guy told me he only makes $600 a month.
Not in a gold-diggerish way, but in reality I take home $780 a week, and the saying goes, "I can do bad by myself"!
Especially since this is a guy you don't really know, move on, before you're in too deep!
2007-02-09 12:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan's Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might lie because he may think you just want to go out with him for his money. If you just started dating that question would be inappropriate.You should really get to know someone before a question like that is asked.But if he only works on weekends its possible he gets paid that.
2007-02-09 12:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people will lie to impress someone, but it is possible to make that much just working weekends. 8 days a month, that is a little less than 100.00 a day, & that is what my brother-n-nlaw makes. 100.00 a day. I think that he told you the truth, & it sounds as though he was ok with it. It does sound like it was just a conversation piece, so don't sweat it.
2007-02-09 12:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking if you work is one thing, but I would wait till you are at that point where the relationship can either go serious or if it's time to break it off, then you can ask if their income is gonna support BOTH lifestyles
2007-02-09 12:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant see myself getting too upset over that question, i dont see anything wrong with asking.
2007-02-09 12:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... He's either living on the welfare system of the general public or his parents.
2007-02-09 12:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start looking for a girl that is not obsessed with money.
2007-02-09 17:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I asked my boyfriend and he is OK with it
2007-02-09 12:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋