hey..me and my girl have been in a relationship for a couple months now...everything has been just great! but she occasionally brings up a question.."how do u feel about us" and idk..but..i dont have the slightest clue of wht to say..and i know it annoys her and i feel like crap for not being able to answer a simple question =[
what do i do?!
2007-02-09 11:57:50 · 9 answers · asked by Erik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to jokingly push it away... as in:
"If you ask me again I'll kill you!" And do it in a sarcastic way.
or "I'm not going to tell you cause I secretly hate your guts" also sarcastically.
Or you could twist her sentence to mean something else, such as, when she says "how do you feel about us" -choose- to interpret it as: 'How are you doing today?' and answer her question as though you don't know what she's talking about
Or you could answer her question with a question: "Do you love me?" and when she answers tell her ok and be silent for as long as possible.
or any other possible ways to avoid directly answering it.
If that doesn't work, you can always answer with a simple: 'good' every time she asks. or "I feel great"
2007-02-09 12:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He desires to be careful cuz I c further and extra marriages/ relationships end because of this. attempt to accompany him even as he has the marriage jobs or perhaps as he is going to his mum and dad abode. it should be a discomfort yet a minimum of u can spend a even as collectively... he's operating like this with the intention to extra effective provide for the both one among u yet he's neglecting u interior the approach. (Its a guy element.) be sure u communicate your authentic emotions to him. do not shop it interior because u will commence to resent him (if u have not already). Get ingenious with regard to spending time collectively. allow him comprehend that u help what he's attempting to do and that u are into what he does. possibly which will open his eyes and make him comprehend what he has and he will have a good time with u extra.... tell him how u sense and shop the strains of communication open. It in basic terms about continuously will pay off interior the lengthy run. as well, the entire element of having A relationship isn't to BE on my own!!! HE should comprehend THIS. It completely defeats the objective. And as far because the entire element with the in-guidelines; do not pressure about that. Make the finest of it. allow them (your in-guidelines) comprehend your barriers. Make your husband sparkling on it too. If that is not obtainable or in case you ALL cannont agree on your barriers, then possibly you want to seem into yet another community. tell your boo that it in basic terms isn't worth jepordizing your relationship with one yet another. I wish u both the superb.
2016-11-26 20:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...how do you feel about it? think about it on your own while she isnt around and see what you come up with. Do you miss her when she isnt there? do you find yourself wanting to talk to her if she isnt with you? do you think about her all the time? if you answered yes to any of those questions...then tell her that! girls like it when a guy opens up even if it makes you guys uncomfortable...do it for her......you may like the results! Good luck and get your thinking cap on!
2007-02-09 12:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by lisaj284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Don't you feel happy with you and her together? She's probably asking what do you feel about the relationship. Or if you are happy with her. Something like that.
2007-02-09 12:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth about how you feel. Do u feel happy, do u love her? or do you feel like something is missing? tell her excatly what your thinking when she asks you.
2007-02-09 12:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think to your slef do i love her if you do then tell her she will get butterflies trust me i know been in that situation!!!!!
2007-02-09 12:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 Cameron♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth and if she doesn't like your answer than she isn't right for u
2007-02-09 12:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by bored today 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that you are still exploring your feelings for her and as soon as you know...she'll be the first to know.
2007-02-09 12:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how old you guys are... tell her how you feel
2007-02-09 12:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋