We talk a lot ive known her for a while. She seems interested but im not total sure. Should I also buy her a valentines girt if so what would you sugest.
2007-02-09 11:55:03 · 20 answers · asked by Rahim S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a teddy bear holding a heart!
that would be so cute and thoughtful! =P
look for signs:
is she flirty around you?
does she try to look good for you?
does she act shy or different around you?
does she talk to you more than anyone else?
does she stare at you?
does she always play with her hair when she is looking at you?
does she bat her eyelashes at you?
does she giggle at you?
does she blush when you are around her?
is she nervous around you?
those are some clues she's into you! :)
2007-02-09 12:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, I wouldn't go as far as buy a card, I would just but flowers secretly and she what her reaction is. It is very hard to tell the diference between friendship and something more. If you find she has nothing planned for valentines night, why not ask her out for a drink as friends and get to know her better. Without throwing yourself into her face, why not 'test the water' and see if you can try to understand how she feels? Asking subtle questions can help you understand more, but if you don't mind risking any friendship, just gently explain how you feel and you will soon know how she feels.
2007-02-09 20:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ai Prodigy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but nothing too serious. Don't go all out and get one of those big heart shaped chocolate things. Just like a small thing of chocolates or if you know her interests maybe something not valentine's related.
2007-02-09 20:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she someone you see somewhat regularly outside of school/work? Then you can buy her something small or preferably just give her something small (i.e. rip a few flowers out of a corporate garden, but present them really nicely at her front door and make her wonder where they came from).
If you don't hang out with her regularly outside of school/work, casual yet clever is the key bro. Start with 'Hey I got you something' and have it be a candy heart (apparently out of a bag of other candy hearts) with a funny but sweet message. If she reacts showing that she finds it funny, yet sweet you'll know you're on the right track and can open up to invite her out to something casual. If she says yes, you know she like you. If she doesn't like your candy heart or is 'too busy' to meet up with you, you know the answer without losing face before your other classmates/coworkers who you will be hitting on next.
2007-02-09 20:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by lucky guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can by all means buy her something. it doesn't have to be anything big or fancy, unless you want to give out a big sign that you like her. you can always ask a few of her friends if she likes you, or you could just tell her casually tell her that you like her when your talking or laughing or something. like" so i heard that blank( some werid guy that she doesn't like) likes you. Well he better not make any moves on you. Then laugh casually and say becaus i like you." some thing like that
2007-02-09 20:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by teresa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say send her a gift for Vday ananymously (sp) and if she is ok with it, tell her it was you! or if she figures it out you know you wouldn't hafta do tha tbut well anyways.... just j"ump off the high board and hope you land in the water and don't lose anything" is what i've always been told with this sort of stuff...gotta take the chance!
2007-02-09 20:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm buying a valentine's day gift if you intend to let her know you like her. But don't buy something expensive, in case she rejects it, at least your wallet won't feel the pinch.
2007-02-09 19:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her something nice, sexy but not sexy, like a teddy bear, regular or a lifesize one would be nice too, she would like that. Just show her that you like her buy carrying that big thing out in public, give it to her and tell her that you like her and want to know if she feels the same, be smooth.
2007-02-09 19:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by BATTLEFEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers the represent friendship and build up from there tell her that your are her friend and you will as be there for her but say this if you mean that for the reat of your life start steady and build uo the relationship and try don't if she doesn't want to
2007-02-09 19:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by pup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so if you are a girl then that is gross...JK but I think that you should just tell her that you like her and her dreams may come true... you know wut i mean so if you so if she did say that she liked you too then if she does like you then go out w/ her and then....... you get her a v-day gift... it should be some choc and flowers! and then that is all!
2007-02-09 20:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Dance Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋