I really want someone to like me. I mean like..have a crush on me. I've had a few people ask me out, but they all got over me. How do you get someone else to like you?
2007-02-09 11:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by ACTiNGisLiFE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lets look at this in two ways-
1: Take an inventory of your personality traits, likes, dislikes, moods, etc. Have your closest friends, family, cousins, etc give you a list of the same things, except from their view point regarding you.
Take a close look at the results and see if there are some areas that could use a bit of personal reflection. Once you narrow down why "guys get over you" then you can work on those areas in the hopes of the next time you have a guy, he won't want to get over you.
2: Perhaps you are attracting the wrong types of guys. If you are a strong, independent gal, that might attract certain guys in the beginning yet be a turn off after some time has gone by, because they may want you to be dependent on them for at least a few things. Or they might have thought they could change you. Also if you are a meek gal, the same can be true.
Sometimes people just attract the wrong type of guy and then those people need to be more selective in their choices and be patience and wait for the guy who is going to compliment their lifestyle.
Remember, what he brings to the relationship should compliment who you are, not complete you. You should be complete in your own right and if you don't feel complete, then perhaps personal reflection will help you to figure it out.
2007-02-09 12:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew...if I did I would use it on a certain girl. But like the saying goes, be careful what you ask for; you just might get it. This girl probably wouldn't be good for me, even if she liked me. But dayam she is so fi hihiiiiiine! hehe
But anyway, I wouldn't want a guy to have a crush on you, just like you and see you for the person you are. When I get a crush on a girl, sometimes I don't even know her that well, and see her in a certain way. Then if I get to know her, she's nothing like I had hoped.
The only advice I could give in this regard would be to try to be as sweet and forgiving as you can be...that's called grace, or at least it's something like it. And it goes a long way on a woman as far as I'm concerned.
2007-02-09 19:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear this is the question every person wants the answer to. The fact is that it's impossible to make someone like you. Try to think of a guy that you don't have those type of feelings for and think to yourself, is there anything that this guy can do to make me like him? The answer is probably 'no'. Either you like someone or you don't. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it's that certain people feel chemistry and others don't.
2007-02-09 19:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that Cher in clueless had a few good points, maybe a little excessive...however sending yourself flowers might intimidate a guy! Sometimes, if you like someone in particular, you can aim to get them buy observing what they like...but it sounds like you have no trouble getting guys to ask you out, which means that they like you! So, in order to keep em longer, just keep your interest and focus on them, and work on your relationship, think of new things to do, etc.
2007-02-09 19:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know this probably isnt the answer you want to hear but all you can do is get out there and make youself known, go to parties, events and into town or on holiday. It takes time but dont worry it will happen for you
2007-02-09 19:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by etduplex 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You dont make anyone like you. If you do things in order to make them like you, like change the way you dress or act, thats really fake, and he's not going to like you for you.
2007-02-09 19:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant control peoples feelings they either have it or they dont just be yourself and dont change for the sake of someone liking you its not worth it!
2007-02-09 19:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just by being sweet and smiling a lot ,caring for others , doing
good deeds .Some one will notice you and love you .
Be patient. :)
2007-02-09 20:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, thats what i always do, and it works. dont try to be someone you are not just to empress a guy. most guys are jerks anyway and if they dont like you for who you are than there not worth it
2007-02-09 19:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Meeee <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont make someone like you
just be yourself, be flirty and ask guys to hang out
2007-02-09 19:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋