I mean I dont know what else to do... Ive had b/fs I just cant find the right guy.. I feel like I'm doomed to be alone... any help serious answers only ... thanks for your help everybody .......
2007-02-09 11:51:30 · 26 answers · asked by gardenia33_99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best things usually comes in our lives when we are not looking for them, just chill for awhile, he maybe right under your nose, you know the saying "we can't see the Forrest for the trees? that is a true saying, sometimes we look too hard,,,,,,, stay sweet. and no you are not meant to be alone, there is someone for everyone
2007-02-09 11:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ann J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever tried moving?
If you can't find the right guy in your area, try moving somewhere else so you can...
This may seem outrageous, but what are you trying to do in life?
Grow old and alone with a ton of money a nice job, and great relations with millions of people.
Or are you trying to find the right guy, get married and have kids? If this is what you want then you've got to make sacrifices somewhere along the line, which may include a nice job, having a bunch of friends, partying every weekend, and/or living in a house that is convienient. (or whatever)
It's not easy to find 'the one' but there are things you can do about it, it's just a matter of how much of a risk you want to take.
2007-02-09 11:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you mean, I acted the comparable way whilst i became youthful. even however im no longer outdated no im basically 20. however the actual key's to be extra open. Now at days being quiet dosent relatively artwork in any respect. in case you dont communicate, human beings will justs say hi to you. And dats approximately it. Like in case you ever question your self how the hell did that fats guy get with that magnificent woman?! He ought to have funds! (attainable) however the actual reason is as a results of fact there talkers, or extra so purely open with who they are. woman continually love in case you're able to be open and communicate your ideas approximately something. or purely make verbal replace frequently. Dont count on your looks a lot, reason except your brad pitt it wont get yo a techniques these days. And have faith me think of approximately it, might you go with a woman who's continually quiet? No cuz it gets uninteresting and uninteresting, have faith me i understand.
2016-12-17 13:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by barrecchia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I feel that way too. I've had girlfriends, just none of them felt right. As the good ol' country band rascal flats says, god bless the broken road that led to you! Keep dating, having fun, not worrying about if they're right or wrong. You'll eventually end up with the right one if you keep at it. But at the same time, being alone isn't a bad thing. And there aren't too many people who will end up completely alone. I doubt you're on your deathbed lol.
2007-02-09 11:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not going to be alone ,, here is something to think about ok ,,, have you ever seen something in your house like your car keys and every day that you were not looking for them they were all up in your face but the day you really in a rush you cant find them i mean they just not in sight then after a while the pop up in one of the most stupid places in the world lol thats how relationships are sometimes when you go out searching for a man you find them in the most stupid places because you are tring to hard so try this stop looking be your self and just have fun and i bet you will have what you are looking for soon go out meet people im not saying become a party head but go out for drinks with out the intentions of lookng for a man and they will come to you and then you will chose the best one for you ok good luck and dont stress
2007-02-09 12:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by PROPHET_83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is key and just putting yourself out there is another key fact. Make sure you are out with friends enjoying life and have no fear of just talking among guys with no real ideas of finding the perfect guy, eventually chemistry will form between someone you interact with and you will have found your guy. But until then dont let it get you down that you dont have Mr. Perfect right now, sometimes things are just meant to come later in life.
2007-02-09 11:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret Darling, I've got the perfect book for you.
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Good luck on your search for love!
Let me know if you like the book!
Olivie
2007-02-09 12:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Olivie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the event that you can't find the right guy..I'd have to assume that you dwell on the on that LEFT. There is some one for everyone. If you fail at one relationship..consider every aspect of that failure..and learn form it. Be patient, and Mr. Right will never leave...Mr. Left will never treat you like a throw-away again. God Bless
2007-02-09 11:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my country there is saying:" For every passenger there is a train". Don't worry: There will be one for you too ;) When i was teenager i had the same problem- I never was lucky with my relations. My school-mates seemed to me very happy with their boyfriends and favored by the destiny...Now I feel much more comfortable with myself knowing that life is a journey that offers you always the things that you need to experience...so just leave yourself to the stream of life and enjoy the fruits that it offers you - especially of men's shape ;)
My very close friend had the same problem, but much deeper- she is 24 years old now and is still virgin. She is quite beautiful but somehow never could allow to a boy to get closer to her, to have a relation with him...just when i became to get discouraged about her too...three days ago she met one guy..and now she's doing some serious steps that she's never done before...her train just came...It's never too late! So don't worry too much about this things- just enjoy the gift of your life and be happy!
2007-02-09 12:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Annabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hah. call me up sweetie. lifes a b*tch huh? lets have ben & jerry's quarts on the couch watching reruns of friends and other sh*t eh? ok... so im suffering from lonely-itis too, so cant help you much, but ill just say be patient and know that hon, youre not the only one...dont feel too bad, and while youre there moaning about your lack of love life( ok...well you sound more like me here....) just remember that not everyone finds someone and although that sounds absolutely horrible, what are your girlfriends for eh?! go out clubbing to celebrate a made-up holiday or just go out to dinner or something, forget about the guys for now and just wait for fate to intervene. itll happen. i promise. good luck lovey!!! tata~~ caitlyn
2007-02-09 11:59:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋