I'm a bit (to say the least) fed up of my partner expecting me to be psychic and believing he can tell me something and do the other. For example, him receiving phone calls asking about a work coleague who left over 6 mths ago, and telling me he doesn't speak to the person & doesn't know why he was asked how they were, then finding out (from mobile bills) that he has been in contact with said person. Am I paranoid or right that I feel betrayed by this?
2007-02-09 11:50:33 · 3 answers · asked by Ai Prodigy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds suspicious from what you have said. I would sit down with him and tell him flat out. You have said, this is the proof of what you said is opposite and you will not tolerate dishonesty and you want...............
You can either say you want your partner to be totally honest, or you are out of the relationship. You cannot have a relationship with anyone without communication and honesty. You lose trust in someone if they don't give you either. Pray about it before sitting down and talking and then follow through with what you say you are going to do.
There are guys who are honest out there. Hugs to you.
2007-02-09 11:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both being untrustworthy. Him by not being forthright about his communications, and you by going behind his back and checking private phone bills.
2007-02-09 11:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I trust how i feel, if it don't feel right...something is wrong...if it feels right, than I tend to trust and believe, no matter what.
2007-02-09 11:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋