I have a friend who used to live in my area, and when he comes to visit from 12 hours away we always end up hanging out...well the last time he came to visit we ended up having sex a few times, at first I thought nothing of it, he's been a great friend for 3-4 years now.... he went back home w/o a phone call to me saying he was leaving, I didn't think it was too big of a deal, but when he got home he called me a few times just to see how I was.....I don't get it?? why would he call once he got home, does it seem that he misses me or just being nice? I haven't called him at all, I like to let the guy call me lol ;)
2007-02-09 11:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FLASH---boys and girls are at totally opposite ends of the emotional scale----you want attachment--he wants sex--he got it and maybe he feels some sense of guilt or it wasn't good, or he has some other feelings---it can and does happen. There is one issue to discuss---sex---you give no ages here, but young sex is only a physical act--no emotions--only a conquest to be won by a guy.Hanging out was fine but now that the sex has happened, it will always be the only reason he comes around--even may not come back. So don't think of this as the big deal--it isn.t and you better start looking locally for a nice, attractive, respectful young man---have nice fun easy dates and forget about this guy being a real interested party. Now--sex is something you better rethink--unless you want diseases or a baby....don't ruin your young fun years.Never let this long distance guy just come around for a sex act---YOU ARE BEING USED--you are better than that--he sounds rather immature, anyway....Good luck and smile...Happy Valentines Day
2007-02-09 12:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well once he got home he realized how good it was and he doesn't want it to stop. That way when he comes to visit he will know there is hot piece of tail waiting for him. But if I was you I would tell him how you feel about the whole situation and then go from there. Hey tell me where you live and I'll go have sex with you too and then when I get home I'll call you, oh yea IM me anytime.
2007-02-09 19:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he probably didnt know what he wanted but got home and realized he really misses you either that or he didnt have to look you in the eyes and talk to you because he felt so odd about the situation
2007-02-09 19:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by hobo9432 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, obviously, but I want 2 points. =]
Eww, sex...gross. A few times? Idiotic on your part and his.
2007-02-09 19:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋