He only talks to her when hes not around me, he talks to her when hes at work or when hes out with his buddies. Does that mean he wants to be with her again and forget about our duaghter and the other one thats on the way >
2007-02-09 11:33:18 · 23 answers · asked by glow4833 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sadly yes, =[ i mean why else would he hide it... sit him down and talk to him about it face to face.
best of luck. my wishes to ya.
2007-02-09 11:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you have a daughter, I think that he shouldn't be messing around with other women, especially flirting 'cause that's a potential sign of a bad relationship and potentially could get worse (i.e. cheating, adultery). Please, go and confront your man regarding this matter if it truly bothers you from the heart.
To further this on, if you wish, go to a couple consultant or some form of counselling for couples.
Sadly, and inevitably, if there seems no other choice or possible solutions (i.e. he won't change his ways, or he makes false promises behind your back,) and no resolutions can be made then maybe its time to trust your instincts not your heart.
Good Luck and Take Care glow4833.
2007-02-09 11:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Curious♥chick♥flick♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he isn't the man you thought he was, and he wants a piece on the side since you won't be able to give him any for a while. SO he is just going from one to teh other. You should get rid of the idiot and find another who will treat you better, and also file for child support on him. SO he can pay up from teh pocket.
2007-02-09 11:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he hides it because he figures that if you find out, you will break up with him. he might be wanting to get back with her. if this is the case, you are going to have a rough road to travel. he is making a big mistake if this is what he is doing. i don't know how any man could forget about his girlfriend and his children. if he indeed doesn't want anything to do with you or the children, what you need to do is to get out of that situation and go after him for child support if he does not want to help out financially. hopefully he is just trying to be a friend to her but you can never be too sure these days. keep your cool until you find out for sure. remember, no man is worth putting yourself and your children into a situation where you or they are not going to be truly loved. if you have to, find someone who is going to love and respect you and your children. that is what both you and them deserve. nothing less. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-09 11:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might mean that, or he doens't want to talk to her infront of you because it makes you uncomfortable.
Talk to him... don't accuse him or put him on the defensive. He may not even realize he is doing it.
More importantly, don't stress yourself about a woman in the past and destroy the relationship you have now.
If he is worth it, trust him. Talk to him. Be open. It is how relationships work.
2007-02-09 11:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by ashley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are people who don't know either of you supposed to know why your boyfriend does what he does? maybe he hides it from you because you freak out over him talking to her. maybe you're one of those stupid chicks who has a fit every time he talks to, looks at or thinks about any girl besides you. maybe he does want to be with her and not you, which certainly doesn't mean he wants to forget his children, but he might want to do that, too. i can't imagine what sort of insight you expect to gain on his actions by asking people who have never met the man. how about you ask him why.
2007-02-09 11:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he must be close to his exgirlfriend. hopefully he's just hiding it from you cause he knows it will upset you but it's also upsetting that he's hiding it from you.
sit him down and talk to him.
hopefully he is being faithful. but it seems as though he's been emotionally cheating on you. =(
2007-02-09 11:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possibly he just doesn't want you to get jealous and upset. In my experience girls get anxiety if their b/f is talking to his ex, even if it's just meaningless friend stuff.
He's probably not planning to get back together with her (the way he talks about her and their relationship is your best bet to try and predict that), but just wants to keep you from getting jealous or stressed.
2007-02-09 11:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he spends more time communicating with the ex, than with u then yeah, u shuld be worried. If you feel his love and he still talks to his ex behind ur back, then he is scared of you knwing and going nutz on him.
2007-02-09 11:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by MIKE R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he's afraid you'll start thinking things and get jealous.
Don't blame you though for asking. If my girlfriend was talking to that loser ex-boyfriend of her's I'd ask questions 2....
2007-02-09 11:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jonas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - he is deceptive therefore he has dishonorable intentions, which I do not know.
What was it about him that told you that he is the one forever and that you should have two children with him? Is it still there?
If you have two children you may want to forgo the jealousy and distrust and just talk to him - you owe it to your children.
FP
2007-02-09 11:37:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋