I've been contemplating breast reduction, but my boyfriend strongly disagrees. When I told him he said dont u dare... But I am only 5 ft. and 100 lbs, with D cups...
Should I take his advice?
2007-02-09 11:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there!!!! Doesn't it suck???? To be so tiny and have all that weight on your chest? I am sorry that your bf feels that way....the breast reduction made me sooo much more confident and my whole body looks 100 times better. It was the best decision I have made in my life! I also had a lift done too..and 3 years later they are still perkier than they have been ever in my life. Doesn't he want you to walk around with no bra and perky boobs?
2007-02-10 07:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Moosey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is a jerk.
Do this... take a 5 lb bag of sugar and place it around his neck. Tell him he needs to keep wearing that for a FULL DAY then come to you and tell you you should not get a breast reduction.
If you feel you need it, go for it. If a guy cannot support a woman who wants to get a reduction then he isn't worth keeping.
If you want to go to a site for BR support, check out http://www.breasthealthonline.com That site helped me out a lot before during and after my breast reduction surgery.
Edit: People keep complaining about scars. I had my BR done a year ago and my scars are 95% gone. The ones still visible are fading. You just have to treat them properly, whether it be with Mederma, Palmers Scar Serum, or ScarGuard.
Also with breastfeeding, check out http://www.bfar.org it is a site about breastfeeding after reduction. My PS says I can breastfeed after reduction, it really all depends on the doctor that does the surgery and his techniques and stuff.
2007-02-10 07:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare or what? He'd break up with you? If that's his stance then he ins't the right guy. If there is a legitimate pain issue going on you do what is best for your body. If he was any sort of man he'd back you up. If not, maybe he is only into large breasts and not the woman they are attached to.
2007-02-09 19:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't the one with the back aches or the bra straps digging into him or just plain being sore and tired from the weight of them!!!!
Get them reduced, you don't have to go very small, try a C or a full C...
2007-02-09 19:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's your body not his. He doesn't feel the pain. Tell him he might like them a tad perkier too
2007-02-09 19:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says "Don't you dare" then half the reason he's with you is for your boobs. If he loved you for the right reasons, he wouldn't care.
2007-02-09 19:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it, thats too heavy for a girl ur size. Its your body not his.
2007-02-09 22:50:57 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how you feel about it or not. i honestly think that if its something that you want and you think it will help you, then you should do it.
good luck
-Emily
2007-02-09 19:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋