my bf of only a week has plans for us in the future he planned living together marriage and kids all ready
im his first gf but i think he moving too fast anyone agree
2007-02-09 11:16:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Without a doubt he is moving to fast. You have to understand if you are his first girlfriend, that's the reaction your going to get from him. He has a long way to go 2-5 years from now you will probably be a memory. But he doesn't know that yet. Guys have a way of holding on to their first girlfriend experience, where girls are excited by their first boyfriend,but also know that it won't be their last.So the only thing I can tell you is to be patience with him and if you really like him, make him understand that you need to take things slow,tell him if it's meant to be down the road we will be together that long, and if not there's a whole lot the both of you still have to experience before you can think about getting married etc.Well good luck
2007-02-09 11:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be moving too fast. shesh me and my guy didnt start talking about the future untill a month and a half all we said was hypittical stuff. its ok to talk about the future that way you both know what each others plans for life are.
2007-02-09 11:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree. Sit him down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. But make sure it's in a nice way unless you wanna get rid of him all together.
2007-02-09 11:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YUP! It has been a WEEK! I would tell him to back off... or the FAR off future won't be able to ever get here. You are still finding out what his favorite color is... not anything more!
2007-02-09 11:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He might be afraid no one as nice as you will come around again.
2007-02-09 11:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not about him... just ask yourself, do you love him? do you want to have lots of sex & babies with him? do you want to grow old with him?
if it is yes, then, what's the problem? :-)
2007-02-09 11:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree...just talk to him!!
2007-02-09 11:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋