We're separated but i still love him and supposedly he loves me too but sometimes i'm not so sure anymore.For instance,last weekend he took me and the baby shopping and out to lunch.I know he has to help with the baby and stuff but he doesn't have to buy me things and he does sometimes and we actually hang out together.But then othe times he won't call or come see me for a few days and i just don't understand what are his motives behind his actions.Why does he act like he cares about me sometimes and other times he acts like he doesn't??Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for me, please no rudeness....
2007-02-09 11:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When you aren't married, it's really easy to come and go. Does he take care of his child? That's all you should be worrying about if you aren't together.
2007-02-09 11:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how does not calling on an hourly basis mean that he doesnt care,, a few days go by and he doesnt care because he didnt call,, wow im sure he does have a life also,, as im sure you mus when not sitting by the phone waiting for it to ring,, give hm the time he needs to take care of his own life before you suspect he doesnt care,, and ask him sometime if he wants to get back together if he says no,, then he is probably with another woman which should be fine since your both seperated,, right?
2007-02-09 19:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is confused.
You two need to sit down and have an unemotional discussion about this. Does he just want to be there for you as the dad or does he want you romantically? If not, that needs to be cleared up. If so, that needs to be cleared up. Having a good relationship with him is VITAL to the life of your child, so even if it is a friendship at best...its still a friendship.
2007-02-09 19:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Thera 9 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may feel that he owes you this because you had his child. Or he could be buying you things to keep you interested in case he decides that he wants to get back with you he knows that he has a foot in the door.
2007-02-09 19:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a puzzler, i doubt this guy even knows what he is doing. perhaps he feels he must fill his obligation and accept responsibility both for you and your child. perhaps he is not sure of how he feels towards you yet and cannot understand his feelings. i think you should maybe discuss this with this man, that is the only way you can really understand his behaviour
2007-02-09 19:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a wonderful world we live in.
Can't married people be making babies instead??
2007-02-09 19:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋