Ive been with Her for a month now. Were both young (19) but she never seems like she wants to say anything sensitive about the relationship. I feel like she doesnt really care much and the only reason shes with me is because she just wants to be in a relationship. But having said i can tell shes attracted to me (always following me around, all over me ect)
I just dont feel close to her at all. It all started out as a fling anyway but i do like her i just really want her to fall in love with me. That might sound really far out and weird but ...I do want it to be that way
But i suppose i have kinda painted the picture that im just out for fun and not being tied down.
Plus on her myspace shes still got martial status as single ??
How do i found out if she wants to get closer or if shes just using me for a bit of fun without sounding like a loved up puppy ???
2007-02-09 11:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by dytrid71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are only together a month so i wouldnt worry yet... if you have such strong feelings for her you should just tell her.. you could bring it up by mentioning that you are seeing each other for a month now and you were wondering if she wanted to have a serious relationship or if it was just a bit of fun... You have nothing to lose. and if her answer is just fun, well then you know now rather than later when you have really fallen for her.
2007-02-09 11:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well her actions are showing one thing, talk to her. See where her mind is. If the seed of love isn't there, it isn't there. No matter how much you might want it to happen, you can't make someone fall in love with you. So if she feels tthe same way, cool, but if she doesn't move on and make room for true love. Good luck!
2007-02-09 11:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people fall madly in love right away.Sometimes it takes days.weeks,months or even years.So my advice is to take this one day at a time and see where it goes.Because it sounds like you want her to be head over heals for you but you are not sure if you want to feel that way about her.Good Luck
2007-02-09 11:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude its been a month...most people need a bit longer to fall in love than that and a lot of people have trouble sayin sensitive things cause they have never done that before. Just enjoy her company and let the relationship grow naturally
2007-02-09 11:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all don't rush into things. take it nice and slow. find more about her. kno what u doin before u do it because if If your heart isn't in it and your conscious is telling u that somethin is up then listen to it and go in that direction. The conscious is a powerful weapon and it reveal things about what goes on in the darkness, so be careful.
2007-02-09 11:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by jlmccln87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk about the relationship more and ask her what she wants from it. maybe tell her what you want and see if she feels that same way, if you want a longer relationship that is.
Hope helps remotley
Me
2007-02-09 11:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Quick_help_is_good 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only been a month - give it time and just have loads of fun together and enjoy each others company, make her laugh, feel wanted and be kind (but dont go ott) if its ti be it will be
2007-02-09 11:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her myspace web page says it all that is exactly how she feels.
2007-02-09 11:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by mike_alegend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "gut" is normally right! You need to find someone that makes you feel special and not question their feelings!
2007-02-09 11:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not exactly in love with her either.
Why are you taking this at all seriously?
2007-02-09 11:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋