2007-02-09 11:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by purplebutterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why confront such an issue when denial or dismissal is the likely response? There's only two options here: either it's a deal breaker for you OR you will improve the relationship as a result.
If it's not a deal breaker, then I recommend that you want just as much benefit as the secret fling received. For some reason, they went elsewhere. That is unlikely to stop unless the relationship escalates to a whole new level of excitement. Neither one of you are little kids, so threatening the other person is pointless. Tell the other person that you want in on the deal, but just the two of you.
2007-02-09 11:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why confront such an issue when denial or dismissal is the likely response? There's only two options here: either it's a deal breaker for you OR you will improve the relationship as a result.
If it's not a deal breaker, then I recommend that you want just as much benefit as the secret fling received. For some reason, they went elsewhere. That is unlikely to stop unless the relationship escalates to a whole new level of excitement. Neither one of you are little kids, so threatening the other person is pointless. Tell the other person that you want in on the deal, but just the two of you.
Do not confront unless you can do it in a loving way.
2007-02-09 11:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this person the you should have some possible contact with the person. You could tell them how you feel face-to-face, but that is really hard to do. E-mail, texting, and the phone are the other options.
The best way to tell him/her how you feel is to wait 'till your alone and at a quiet place. Be clear and romantic at the same time!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-09 11:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could confront that person face to face or you could write them a note or e-mail them.
it really depends on how up front and personal you want to be with that person.
2007-02-09 11:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a ton of courage you could do it face to face (it takes a lot of courage, i know) or now you have phone and e-mail... but these two other options are not really as effective.
2007-02-09 11:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is it secret to, you or them?
Start out by stalking, then expose yourself to them in public. Shhh, our secret!
2007-02-09 11:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Helpful Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face to face
2007-02-09 11:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by tuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call jerry springer.
2007-02-09 11:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
with stealth!
2007-02-09 11:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PHONE HER
2007-02-09 11:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋